headings

I was wondering why they always change my heading? It says choose one or we will suggest one for you. Well I always write one and they always change it. Twice now it has been changed to a heading that was not the focus of my question. Whoever is changing them please don't change mine I like the ones I write. Thank you.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 13:11 (London time) - permalink
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Take note MODS. Usually they change it to make it more appealing for people to click on it. I don't know what your title was, but perhaps they wanted to change it slightly to make it sound more click-able. Although in your case it seems like it was misread, or something. The more people click on your question the better, right? It's kind of like headlining a news story :)

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 13:29 (London time) - permalink
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I was wondering if I could help to explain why this might be happening.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 13:32 (London time) - permalink
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I wouldn't get to worked up. They make titles specifically to grab peoples' attention so that they will read your question. That's the point; not to write your exact questiion. People will be drawn in and see the question you're asking once they read it.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 15:54 (London time) - permalink
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All I'm saying is my titles are effective attention grabbers without telling the whole story or without being too ordinary. I just want them to leave my titles alone. They completely changed one of mine, the title they wrote wasn't even close to the question I was asking. I would love for them to leave them alone.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 21:40 (London time) - permalink
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Here is an example of one title "my fwb says he loves me now that I have lost weight" ok I never said that anywhere in my question.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 21:48 (London time) - permalink
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The only follow ups posted on your profile was from this question of yours, titled 'Are we going to be "friends with benefits" forever, or does he want more?'. Have you submitted it more than once and got the title you gave an example of? If it's just the one then I thought that title was fine. If that title has actually been used in another question you posted, then I can see how that could be implied because at the end one of the questions was something along the lines of ' Is he interested now I've lost weight?'. There are many Mods so they won't all read this and remember that you want the title exactly how you put it, but the majority of the time Mods leave it or only slightly change a title that has been provided by the question asker. Also if there was a mistake in the title, most people on here have the common sense to look below and actually read the question properly.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 22:1 (London time) - permalink
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Life is really too short to get worked up over tiny things. This isn't a big deal. Bottom line, your question was submitted. Bottom line: the MODS work hard and don't need to be nit-picked. There are far too many people and questions and answers and articals on this site for them to be taking special oders fromo individuals. Cut some slack and relax a little.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 22:46 (London time) - permalink
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I'm not getting worked up I just wanted to know why they change it. I like the titles I wrote, I'm not angry just curious on why they would change perfectly fine titles.

Posted on 23 September 2009 @ 23:13 (London time) - permalink
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it seems to me that people are irritated with me for asking this question. Sorry to offend anybody, but I find it to be a little insulting when they change my title. I understand if the same title was used or if you don't write one, of course do what you gotta do. But, I hate the fact that I take the time to write a title just to have it changed. I write all the time and I feel that when it is changed you are telling me that I'm not good enough. Maybe I am a little bit over the top on this, but it is how I feel and isn't this site about getting open honest questions and answers. Thank you for the site I do like it.

Posted on 24 September 2009 @ 6:54 (London time) - permalink
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kathy255, you are completely entitled to say what you think, that is part of what this forum is for: feedback.

Posted on 24 September 2009 @ 7:16 (London time) - permalink
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Nah I was just reading around to find that someone left because the maintnance of the site was perfect and i've spoken to tohers privately and they seem to have a lot to complain about and i was jus growing tired of it. I'm a -I don't like peas but these are a lovely shade of green- kind of guy. If you're gonna say somethign negative, throw in some positive, basically.

Posted on 24 September 2009 @ 9:22 (London time) - permalink
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