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horsefanatik_andyhorsefanatik_andy, posted over a year ago

imm 14 ..well almost 15 but i wan tto know what is the safest kind of sex . should i just use a condom, its just i dont want his penis like inside me...its wierd

Posted on 28 December 2007 @ 20:24 (London time) - permalink
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*.::g*i*L*L::.**.::g*i*L*L::.*, posted over a year ago

hey,

honestly i think that if you think a penis inside you is weird, you're not ready for sex yet

plus the legal age is 16.. wait a couple years :)

Posted on 11 January 2008 @ 19:25 (London time) - permalink
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MissKinMissKin, posted over a year ago

I agree that you should wait until you are 16 to have sex but realistically, this does not affect many young people's decisions to have sex earlier on. If you decide you are going to have sex younger than the legal age limit, it is necessary that you know about all types of contraception and the ones that best suit you.

Condoms are 98% effective at stopping pregnancy and are the only form of contraception that stop you from getting sexually transmitted infections and diseases.

Don't forget that precum has sperm in it aswell, and if it gets upon your hands and finds its way into your vagina, there is a chance you could get pregnant, though the chance is slim.

I recommend you do some research.

The only way to ensure you are 100% safe is to not have sex at all.

However, there are other types of contraception against pregnancy. The pill, femidoms, the coil etc. You should make an appointment with your family doctor or visit a family planning clinic or even a teacher for more advice on sex. There are also many websites on the internet that address such issues.

Sex should be a mutual decision. Never do anything you are not comfortable with - regardless of how much you 'love' him and how much he wants you to do it. If you are not ready, do not do it.

Best wishes.

Miss K.

Posted on 13 January 2008 @ 21:10 (London time) - permalink
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NiikkiiNiikkii, posted over a year ago

jaja lol omgosh my friend andrew who is gay knows more about this than anyone, i member he said that theres the birth control,condoms,day after pill,patches,injections,surgerys, etc etc not to get pregnat. but yea i think youre way too young to have sex. im 16 going to be 17 in a few months & i dont want to have sex, it is a SIN to have sex before married && i dont want to be dissapoint god, if you think this like for a long time then you will get used to thinking this way && you will not have sex for alot of years. believe me guys have been tryin to get in my pants since when i was 9 years old && i thought this all along && im still successful i get tempted but nope. no sex for meh lol

Posted on 27 April 2008 @ 5:6 (London time) - permalink
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