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Ladies (guys you might want to read as well in case you want to do a little "sleuthing"), I am a 36 year old happily married man and need input if anyone is willing to share. My wife and I have been together since 2001 and about a year ago I discovered that she masturbates at night after I fall asleep. She’s 30 by the way. It's a wonder I didn't find out before, but I fall asleep fast and sleep really well. However one night last year she woke me up jerking the bed. I laid there motionless and was SOOO turned on. My heart was beating 90 miles a minute and I had to watch my breathing. Now sometimes I fall asleep after a few minutes, but sometimes stay up with her during the duration because it STILL turns me on to no end. She is very shy about masturbation and has denied ever doing it without a vibrator or by herself at all. She says that when she does that (during sex) it rubs her raw and is why she never masturbated before. Is that even possible considering a woman’s natural lubrication? We have a GREAT sex life (every other day on average) and I ALWAYS go down on her for the first orgasm and she uses a vibrator during sex for the second. But apparently she wants more. I would never tell her I know because first I don't want to embarrass her and second I enjoy it too much just listening. Telling her would just ruin it. Many times I even squeeze the head of my penis together on that spot over and over until I go myself because it turns me on so much. At first I was suspicious that maybe I was hearing or feeling things, but she gave it away when she jerked real hard during one ordeal, breathed really heavy, and that soft sweet wet sound of playing with herself. Our sex life has gotten even better since then and I swear every day she makes me hornier and hornier. We do ebay for a living and set our own hours. I get up between 9:30 and 10 and she sleeps in til 11:00. She says it's because she has a hard time falling asleep at night, but I know better. One time I swear she was still doing it going on 4:00 in the morning! Is that possible and does it feel THAT good the 3rd 4th or 5th time? Granted we went to bed at 1:00, but that's just amazing. I would say she has on average 3-5 more after the 2 during sex. It takes her a while because she tries real hard not to breathe heavy or move much, but the goal of having an orgasm just takes over. Listening to it is like heaven on earth. I’m more tired now the next day, but it’s so worth it. Ladies, if you ever want to spice up your sex life, TRUST ME, you MUST try this with your significant other. I GUARANTEE he will be turned on and want you more. Just start soft and early (so you know he’s still awake, but yet late enough so that you think he thinks you’re asleep) so that he's suspicious at first and it catches his attention. Don’t be too obvious, yet see what happens. While everyone is different and some guys might say "uhhh, honey what are you doing?" or an even more backwards response like "how dare you," but I guarantee it's a chance worth taking, especially if your love life is faltering. You can even blame me for suggesting it and show him this paragraph for the reason you tried it in the first place. That might save you some guilt or embarrassment and then just say, sorry I thought it might work, won't try it again. But as you know, most guys are turned on when they see a woman masturbating (right guys?) and even more so when they think nobody is looking. I find myself now even thinking about my wife more than fantasizing about having sex with other women while I masturbate. I was just wondering how common this is and if any of you women have ever done it or do it on a regular basis yourself. Guys have your wife/girlfriend ever done it and if you haven't tried finding out you might want to start. Thoughts?
Posted on 17 November 2009 @ 0:1 (London time) - permalink
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Another_Kapiti, posted
over a year ago