How 2 Talk 2 My BF About Sex

Sweetie Pie, posted over a year ago

Hey Guys!

I know i am only 12 but there is something i really want to talk to my boyfriend about...

My bf and i arent really that much physical.We have kissed once and have hugged once but thats pretty much it.

I dont want to have sex with him at my age right now but i'm curious if he has ever had sex with someone and if he would want to have sex with me.This is a REALLY big question i should be asking him but its been on my mind latley and i really want to know his thoughts toward this subject.

Should i ask him if he wants to have sex with me?He already knows that in the beggining of the year there was 2 guys that wanted to have sex with me and he also knows one of his friends want to have sex with me too.Sooo should i keep this to myself and just think about it or should i just ask him?

PS Sorry i know this question should be on the main site but i wanted your opinions on it first!

Sweetie Pie:

Posted on 23 April 2006 @ 18:44 (London time) - permalink
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been_there, posted over a year ago

hi there! i think u shud just GO 4 IT!!!! ask him str8 out if therez a rezun y u2 hav not been intim8 altho 12 is veryyyyyyy young(!!!) im sure a few more hugs wouldnt hurt maybe holding hands? why are there 12yr olds thinkng and wanting 2 hav sex? its your own choice but remeber after you have had sex there no turning back!!but defz talk 2 him- he wont know unles u tell him!! if u chose 2 have sex rember 2 use contraception he may not be honest about his sexual history and a std is not something u want right now...neither is a baby!!! good luck!!

Posted on 25 May 2006 @ 15:40 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

i know this is an old post but to sweetie pie or any other 12 year olds. There should be no need for contraceptives because you should be busy being a normal twelve year old and normal twelve year olds do not have sex. If your friends that are twelve are having sex you need knew friends. Unless you get hit by a bus early in life there is so much time to do these things later when you can make informed decisions. You are robbing your self of formative carefree years that you will never get back. Sex complicates things unduly for middle aged people. Just wait even for a year or two. Sex will always be waiting out there for you to go and try. But your innocence is precious and will be short lived if you become sexually active. when I was twelve It would have made me blush to use the word sex in front of an adult

Posted on 6 February 2008 @ 0:56 (London time) - permalink
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