making the first move

Ok, an easy one guys and girls;

Posted on 15 December 2009 @ 21:13 (London time) - permalink
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From a man's point of view it's better if the woman makes the first move, and vice-versa. it's only ever happened to me once though. Maybe I'm not as smooth, suave and sophisticated as I might have thought I was.

Posted on 15 December 2009 @ 21:17 (London time) - permalink
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Don't women think guys ever get tired of it? We take all the chances. We fear all the rejection. And you guys, having never experienced rejection can be brutal on men. I have been treated mercilessly by a woman that would crumple under the slightest bit of rejection from a guy. I am not speculating. I have approached a woman I work with and get skewered. Then see the same woman flirt with a guy and get rejected and shut f'ing down.

Posted on 15 December 2009 @ 23:16 (London time) - permalink
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ouch...unfortunately pretty close to the truth. I think im pretty open and honest but most of my girlfriends thru the ages, played a lot of games. Bah, i dont like people who play games...mal

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 0:14 (London time) - permalink
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I was asked out several times by girls when I was in college. From a purely selfish standpoint it was better for me, but I don't think that one is better than the other in the grand scheme.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 5:25 (London time) - permalink
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I like it when the guys make the first move, then I can skewer them like last night's roast beef.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 14:40 (London time) - permalink
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Ok so if I like the guy, and there's a chance he may like me back I should be ok asking him out?

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 15:52 (London time) - permalink
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Go for it, really. You snooze you lose. I was just kidding around before, in case you don't know me.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:13 (London time) - permalink
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Oh Eyes we know you and your pathetic and thinly veiled attempts at emasculating men on this site. You think I would miss the skewered comment.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:36 (London time) - permalink
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Witch fire. I think he wouldn't mind if you smacked him up side the head with a frying pan and dragged him him back to your place before he regained consciousness.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:39 (London time) - permalink
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Eyes, eyes eyes, what's with the eyes? We know you think I look like a friggin' eyeless bear in a bonnet...

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:46 (London time) - permalink
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GD I was trying to say something that passes for wit but I can't take my friggin eyes off that avatar. You really don't see it? The pupil his his nose and his snout is under it.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:51 (London time) - permalink
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It's like those pictures when you think you see a couple dancing and twirling and you keep staring at it and suddenly it becomes two dogs humping each other in a vacant lot.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:54 (London time) - permalink
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I have squished my eyes, rolled my chair to the far side of the room, turned the lights down and I can only see that your drugs have kicked in...no bear.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:54 (London time) - permalink
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in a bonnet

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 16:55 (London time) - permalink
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Now that you have ruined the one joy in my life. I always was excited to see your avatar and say. Oh it will be a lovely day today. Eyes is in the house and I love to hear her kind and gentle words. Now I realize it's some broad leering in at me like like MY MOTHER! Which reminds me. I need to go check on her restraints.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:5 (London time) - permalink
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THERES NO BEAR IN THAT AVATAR.... Oh my goodness thats one insult i wouldnt take sitting down eyes...i'd knock HIM with the frying pan upside HIS bonnet. And then we could tie him up and gag him (definitely stuff a sock in his mouth) and have our way with him. hehe OP: Definitely ask him out.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:21 (London time) - permalink
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Naw I'll just bear with our dear q, even tho' he can be overbearing at times especially when he is discussing the bear facts or bear-naked ladies. He just bearly gets by the Mods.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:27 (London time) - permalink
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The bear was endearing. The eye is f'ing creepy OK? There I said it.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:37 (London time) - permalink
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not as creepy as baddog's, or your stupid fence one, and what about that guy with the mouth in his hand?????

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:57 (London time) - permalink
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Besides if I change it, my fans would be very disappointed, he told me so

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 17:58 (London time) - permalink
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were we supposed to be shocked that he said it? like he doesnt say EVERYTHING that come to mind.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 18:38 (London time) - permalink
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I could upload one of me doing laundry in MY stiletto's.

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 19:17 (London time) - permalink
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Some things are best left to the imagination. Hey! First someone has changed out my rug shampooer and now my shoes are missing.....

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 20:43 (London time) - permalink
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OMG like, I can't believe you think its disquesting!

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 20:49 (London time) - permalink
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OK. Mind control will have to wait until later. Got to take the kid to the foot doctor now! I'll be back!

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 20:52 (London time) - permalink
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The tin foil is from HER bonnet

Posted on 16 December 2009 @ 22:11 (London time) - permalink
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I think it could be a hedgehog rather than a bear Q..... a bit like Mrs Tiggywinkle in her bonnet!

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 1:29 (London time) - permalink
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yessss finally someone sees what I see.

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 1:36 (London time) - permalink
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Nah, that line is the bottom eye lid.

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 4:22 (London time) - permalink
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Maybe I should switch to my other eye....

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 14:8 (London time) - permalink
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hmmm whoever wudv thought asking about making the first move would bring about such a heated debate about something else lol

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 18:34 (London time) - permalink
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Oh we are keeping an eye out for you.

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 18:36 (London time) - permalink
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I was staying focused

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 19:18 (London time) - permalink
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Bofus?

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 20:0 (London time) - permalink
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I had a cousin in from east Texas. We went to have our picture taken together. She asked why he got under the little tarp in the back.

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 20:3 (London time) - permalink
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hey they talk like that in NC too. plus ya'll

Posted on 17 December 2009 @ 20:48 (London time) - permalink
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lol.

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 12:44 (London time) - permalink
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yes, to the movies, to get a coke, bowling, something casual at first and see how it goes. Good luck, and let us know how it goes. Mal

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 14:12 (London time) - permalink
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Will do.

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 16:58 (London time) - permalink
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I prefer a woman to show up at my door wearing only an over coat.

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 17:39 (London time) - permalink
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He'll get your point. Both of them.

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 17:40 (London time) - permalink
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... an overcoat .... and heels.

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 18:32 (London time) - permalink
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haha thats a good one. shame i live about 2hours away- would get pretty cold!

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 19:24 (London time) - permalink
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i think youre a good sport sweetie :) hes a lucky guy. He should jump at the chance. Mal

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 20:31 (London time) - permalink
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Lol. At the moment im keeping my options open even though i really like this guy im trying to back off slightly. Iv been a little crazy of late

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 22:24 (London time) - permalink
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well then you fit right in here. We have a lot of fun though. Are you 3 hrs from phil or q?

Posted on 19 December 2009 @ 23:21 (London time) - permalink
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Who are they?

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 7:20 (London time) - permalink
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you'll have to ask them that...i was just asking because you said earlier that you were about 2 hours away from one of them.

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 8:25 (London time) - permalink
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im having a blonde moment, who do you keep trying to talk to on fb?

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 9:11 (London time) - permalink
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I live 2hrs away from him + its him i chat 2 on fb. Hope that clears things up x

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 11:45 (London time) - permalink
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It's a fair bet she's nearer to me than q!

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 13:45 (London time) - permalink
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ohhhhhh u meant the guys on the posts!!! i thought u meant some american psychiatrists lol

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 16:37 (London time) - permalink
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when im on mobile, sometimes avatars and flags dont show up. I was out of town and using my phone the last couple of days...this morning i was home and had a few minutes...so i did see the flag. Sorry about the mix up. Mal

Posted on 20 December 2009 @ 18:45 (London time) - permalink
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sometimes mine does that. definitly prefer pc to mobile internet lol

Posted on 22 December 2009 @ 16:8 (London time) - permalink
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oh me too.. and at home even i have very slow dial up....i am at my mother in laws today and she has hi speed....wow. i could get used to that!!!!!! lol mal

Posted on 22 December 2009 @ 16:48 (London time) - permalink
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Lol. So far i havnt spoken to that guy. Im doing well.

Posted on 23 December 2009 @ 13:13 (London time) - permalink
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