HOW DO I SLEEP W/MY BF AFTER HE CHEATED ON ME 2 WEEKS AGO?? TRYING TO WORK THRU IT....

i found out that my bf of 2 yrs cheated on me 2 weeks ago. i've known for exactly one week now...and i've decided to work things out w/him. he was on tour and it was someone from his past....which doesn't in ANY way justify cheating. he slept w/her twice. he says it was a BIG mistake. that he totally failed in being a real man and honoring what we have between us. he puked his guts up on the phone w/me the night i found out. and he says he NEVER wants to hurt me that way again. that he NEVER will. so i'm working on trying to have faith and trust in him again.

Posted on 24 July 2007 @ 22:35 (London time) - permalink
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Dude why the hell are you still with him?? He cheated on you! Ok my boyfriend cheated on me too LOL. Were now engaged. Just look at the situation like this he told you about it =) That takes guts. This will take some time to get over. Im still not over it and its been 2 years =S lol I would just wait on having sex with him till you get your head clear. If he loves you he will wait. He will understand

Posted on 26 February 2009 @ 9:36 (London time) - permalink
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My husband cheated on me and every time we make love, I can't shake the thought of him f**king that other woman. I know I will carry the hurt and his mistakes throughout my entire life although my husband is trying all he can to prove to me that it will never ever happen again. You'll always see the cracks on a broken mirror or glass no matter how well they're mended! Trust will always be an issue.

Posted on 26 April 2010 @ 10:21 (London time) - permalink
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My ex-husband cheated on me with someone from his past and same story. He isnt a real man, it was a huge mistake, it hurts him to know he hurt me. yadayadayada. They went on to having kids while WE were married. It wont end. They dont change. Leave him now it will hurt less in the long run. By the way HPV doesnt show up in men having std testing done. hint hint leave now. it will also save you a ton in medical bills and the possibility of cervical cancer. Speaking from past experience and future on-going medical testing

Posted on 26 April 2010 @ 22:10 (London time) - permalink
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I was once cheated on during my marriage. Before we got married, I swore I am gonna leave him if I catch him cheating- but when it happened- it wasn't easy to just leave. It isn't easy to just throw anything good left between me and him. I knew he loved me, but he made a mistake. I went though nights without sleeping too. I went through nights taking pills just so I can rest and when I wake up- I wanted to sleep again just so I can forget the pain. But I love him and he loves me, I know. I know in my heart. He asked me to go through therapy. He sent a link to this site- http://745093djydtu8s5-yhrari7zet.hop.clickbank.net/ and of course, I was still furious and emotional I didn't check out right away-- but when I did, I must say it's one of the best decisions I've ever had. I sure you find peace soon.

Posted on 29 April 2010 @ 16:43 (London time) - permalink
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