Highly sexed wife.

Merchant , posted over a year ago

I am married to a woman that has gone sex mad. No its not a fastasy. She wants sex, 3 times a day, morning, noon and night, I am exhausted.

The most worryiing thing is that she wants to have sex with lots more people not just me. Should I agree with this?

She says that she is comfortable with me having sex with other people? But I am scared that I will end up losing her. She has tried to reassure me, that the sex will be just that. All this is having a big impact on me. I feel depressed and low.

What do I do?

Posted on 25 April 2007 @ 19:55 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

I am thinking it is an age factor and she has just reached her peek.

I say...get couple's therapy. Sex may be a means for her to release tensions, agressions, maybe some deep seated issues/fears...sex is a good distraction to many people so counselling for you both is the best course.

Communication seems one sided as as it stands, this is a win/lose situation which will only bring heartache and misery.

A counsellor can make it a win/win situation in that both of you get your concerns addressed and see if some 'agreement' can be reached.

Also, see your family doc about possible depression.

Best Wishes.

Posted on 25 April 2007 @ 19:59 (London time) - permalink
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Merchant , posted over a year ago

Think that counselling might be a good idea. We have two kids, so I am keen not to have to divorce her. Thanks for your quick and kind reply.

Posted on 25 April 2007 @ 20:31 (London time) - permalink
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