Lack of Sex after 3 yrs!

Help..Ive been with my boyf for 3 years. I have aways had a slightly higher sex drive than he but just recently its got beyond the joke. He shows me plenty of affection through cuddles & kisses,tells me he loves me etc.. in the bedroom though he rarely inisiates sex and when he does there is lack of foreplay..What annoys me is that he is happy for me to masturbate him or give him oral all the time, he doesnt react by touching me. At the least he asks if he can 'stick it in' just as he is ready to cum. From this I get no pleasure. What is going on? He says he still fancies me etc and his only explanation is that sometimes he is just too tired to be bothered. Is it just me or is that a lame lame excuse?

Posted on 4 April 2006 @ 21:38 (London time) - permalink
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I think this belongs in the main site. However, to answer your question - yes that is a lame excuse. He should give as well as 'take'.

Posted on 10 April 2006 @ 22:23 (London time) - permalink
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you both want different things, you want a relationship that has love making in it, with both of you giving and recieving pleasure, he wants sex when he can be bothered and then it is just one sided. You aint compatable so ditch him and move it on, he is wrong for you, both of you know it so why hang on to what is dead in the water.

Posted on 12 April 2006 @ 21:34 (London time) - permalink
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