A Little Seceret That Could Mean A LOT!!!

Me and my boyfriend broke up a few weeks ago and just recently got back together... My problem is one of his friends ryan keeps making up lies{he she kind of stuff...}So i asked my boyfriend if i could tell ryan me and him broke up so ryan would stop.My boyfriend agreed to my plan and said tell every one that cause i want our relashonship to be kept seceret. Now i'm full of questions as toward why he doesn't want any one to know about us.Could he be ashamed of me?

Posted on 27 March 2006 @ 22:40 (London time) - permalink
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Hey there Sweetie Pie.. It was you who suggested it so maybe he was just going along with your plan, although I guess you are kinda annoyed that he wants to let everyone know that you are not an item, and so you should be... I think you should talk to your boyfriend, and explain you are a bit hurt by the way he has handled things and if that doesnt help you have to let him g, You deserve much better pet.... Hope this helps.. Jacqueline

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 16:56 (London time) - permalink
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I totally agree with you bridget but the only reason he and sorta me want us to be a seceret is because people our trying to break us up... and i definetley don't want us to break up thats why i suggested what i did and i totally understand why he wants us to be a seceret...its because me and him both don't want any one in our businness... The problem i ment to put in my message was if we want people to think we broke up then we have to act like it{which is totally hard!}.So how can we act like we broke up but still be boyfriend and girlfriend? p.s.Thanks again bridget for the studying idea!

Posted on 28 March 2006 @ 22:16 (London time) - permalink
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Hey Sweetie Pie.. Thanks for the compliment! I totally agree, yeah, It must be totally hard acting like that when you really want to just grab a hug or kiss!! You can still be boyfriend and girlfriend in a relationship, you just have to watch your marks and you can still see each other at night right?? There is always the weekend aswell, what you need to watch out for though is if his friend thinks you both have broken up, he might try to set your boyfriend up and your friends might do the same with you.. I would advise you to talk to your boyfriend about this and make it clear that if he wants to continue this relationship then you must (A BIG MUST) have trust in the realtionship... Good Luck Jacqueline

Posted on 29 March 2006 @ 0:6 (London time) - permalink
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One of my boyfriends friends actually tried to hook me up with some one today.I told my boyfriend about it and he said that me and him would make up people from different schools and say we go out with them.I told him it was a good idea.And i just have to ask you something bridget do you know a good way to overcome shyness?Cause me and my boyfriend are relly shy.I already told him i'm ok with him touching me but that didn't help at all.Any ideas?

Posted on 29 March 2006 @ 0:23 (London time) - permalink
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Im glad you are kind of getting somewhere with your boyfriend, you might not think you are but you are.. Days have passed and you are still together that is what has to keep you going and keep you strong if you are choosing this direction to forward your relationship.. I was a shy person (painfully shy) when I met my boyfriend, and I had been through alot and the easiest way I got over shyness was to see my boyfriend more at the start of the relationship. Might sound daft but I only got to see him one day at weekend and I decided that if he was too shy to move then I would and thats exactly what you need to do.. You must take a hold of your relationship and make it work somehow.. I had let too many things slip away from me and when I met G I just decided to do something for me for once and thats exactly what I did.. And tht is how to overcome shyness, fight for your confidence... Focus on something and you will get there.. That has been my inspiration... Good Luck Jacqueline

Posted on 29 March 2006 @ 12:30 (London time) - permalink
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