Guys: what would make you give your ex girl a second chance?

applebite8821, posted over a year ago

To our guys here: Granted that you still love your ex girlfriend, in your opinion, what actions from her will convince you to go back to her once more?

Should she be apologetic and sincere?

Indifferent and has moved on?

Or if she is going to be with someone else if you don't get back to her?

If there are other considerations you have in mind, I would love to get your opinions...

Thanks so much in advance...

Posted on 14 July 2009 @ 13:37 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Depends on the severity of what split you up? getting with another guy if you dont get back with her would convince me she doesnt want to get back,and neither would i as would indifference. genuine sincerety would be best.

Posted on 14 July 2009 @ 18:14 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

If I still love an ex lover, apologies would be the least wanted action. Sincerity is a 'measurement' of a combination of actions over a period of time, like trust that requires time and experience. Sincerity cannot yield accurate results by doing something in the moment. Begging automatically makes me reject her. Emotional blackmail does not work on me.

There will always be lingering feelings for an ex lover, even if ended badly or if our relationship was rocky. So even if I have moved on, I will never be completely indifferent to her.

The reasons on why we are ex lovers is an important factor in deciding whether I could accept her back or not. This subject is too broad and too generic and cannot be applied to individuals as a whole.

Posted on 14 July 2009 @ 20:28 (London time) - permalink
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Your friend, posted over a year ago

This message is a reply to your original post, I'm putting it here incase you miss it:

You should have mentioned all this in your first post then you would have got more replies to support you. It just won't work, you can't look into a guys eyes and know he loves you then have him reject you the next day. If you can't read him you will never know him and judging from his reaction you don't want to know him. This man will bring nothing but heartbreak to you, life will be uncertain and you will be unlikely to hold his interest. Save your heart for another who will rejoice in receiving your gift..

Posted on 15 July 2009 @ 11:30 (London time) - permalink
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