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I feel like Im loosing my boyfriend to a bromance with his male friend(getting wierd to me)

ihearthim06, posted over a year ago

So ive asked many ppl about this,but still not really getting an answer.ive been with my bf for a little over three years now and i know he loves me.he may not say it often but he does things to show it all the time.he surprises me with gifts and such and except for the occasional arguement we are perfectly fine.there is only 1 problem.he's having a bromance with one of his friends.its been going now for the third month.there have been times where he has blew me off for his friend and it seems like he will rush to do anything for him.he even let his friend borrow his xbox that i bought for him for the two months.when i asked him about it he got really defensive saying that his friend needed it. it has gotten to the point where he wants to move in with his friend and go to the same college as him.he sleeps at his house every night and goes with him everywhere.even when his friend had to go out with his mom he tagged along.he even let his friend borrow over 100 dollars from him and he still hasnt paid him back,but if anyone didnt pay him back,including me he would freak out.to conclude he has to move out of his house this agust...he's 20.he is thinking bout going to school to live there,but he'd rather live with his friend in an apartment together.we used to dicuss living together,but it disappeared when his friend came along.he even cut other friends out of his life. and finally he even wants to tag along when his friend is with his girlfriend.im not sure what to do but i need advice quickly before i loose my boyfriend to another man.am i being paranoid or am i missing something.please i need u guys' help..thanks alot!!!

Posted on 5 May 2009 @ 23:37 (London time) - permalink
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DreamloverDreamlover, posted over a year ago

hey there, it does dound a bit weird, the only solution is to actually chat to him, tell him how you feel, dont argue and take it from there. You might be surprised with the answer?

Posted on 19 May 2009 @ 14:47 (London time) - permalink
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