Boyfriend's childish attitudes

I love my boyfriend but lately I'm confused about us. He's a sweet nice guy but will have childish little fits because he is so sensitive. For example, and yes I know it is stupid, last night I kept pulling the blanket on the bed and he eventually just sat up did his little huff noise and sat there. I'm at my ropes end, if that's what the saying is. I mean these little fit things or whatever you call them are driving me crazy. I do love the guy to death when he is being himself but lately his attitudes are more frequent. It's like he isn't yelling or anything like that. It's just the best way I can describe it is childish. I'm not really sure what to do. When he acts like this I get mad right back at him. Sometimes I think we have a lack of communication because lately I have given up on talking about it. I've mentioned his little attitudes numerous times to him and they get better sometimes but I can still hear the heavy sighs or can tell he is annoyed from how he walks away. His parents have talked to me about how they have tried to get him to work on it in the past, like when he stomps away angry about something. He is 22 btw. He really isn't immature about anything else really. I know how he is really sensitive and that's why the littlest things get to him. But I am sensitive also so the attitudes will get to me and sometimes I wonder why we are together or if we should be together at all. Then we will have our good days and I love him to death again. I have never written a forum before but just wanted to let it out. I feel like I have no one to talk to about it really aside from him. I'd appreciate anyone who could talk to me about it. Without a job or school I'm lacking on friends these days.

Posted on 28 January 2009 @ 23:9 (London time) - permalink
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Right i had a bf that was like this he used to go in the most pathetic childish moods it was unreal and to be honest i had to stop myself from laughing most of the time but i agree it gets a bit annoying.Sit him down and say look if your gonna go in these stupid moods then i have no option but to consider ending this relationship,if he cant express himself to you then you will just have these pathetic moods all the time.My ex when he went in mood i used to just turn my back on him and that would rage him because he wasnt getting any attention so when we were in bed i wold just turn my back and totally ignore him but then he started pulling the covers off me and then acted suprised when asked him what he was doing,absolute child throwing his toys out the pram!!His family probs have a lot to do with his moods because if they made a big deal out of it then he would start to see this as a way of getting attention so watch out mummys boys are the worst!! goodluck

Posted on 10 January 2010 @ 17:44 (London time) - permalink
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I personally believe he's too young for a serious relationship but hang on & see if it lasts if you want to.Self respect & self love are the only ways you can learn what live is! You can't love anyone until you love yourself.When you know what loving yourself looks like,things will drastically improve & you might even have a job & friends?

Posted on 31 January 2010 @ 6:51 (London time) - permalink
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i have no answer for this one but circumstance leaves me hoping someone else does

Posted on 6 February 2010 @ 21:27 (London time) - permalink
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