Please give me some advice?!!

I'm engated to a man whom's in the Navy (I only see him once every couple of months). He is an amazing guy, so sweet, and wonderful. However, he proposed to me at a very young age! I'm 18, and very confused with life in general. We got engaged about a half a year ago. I said yes at the time, because I believed he truely was the one. Now i'm having doubts and I suppose "cold-feet". I never dated all that much b/c I started seeing him in High School. And now i'm getting curious and wondering if I made the right choice in saying yes. I always wonder what it might be like if I had the chance to date more. I feel aweful for thinking those things, but I cannot help it. I'm at a loss of what to do, does everyone feel this way before they get married?! Our wedding date is two years from now also, due to school (college) for me. I feel completely lost as to what step I should make next. I don't want to lose him, but I still wonder what it's like to date and experience what other students are experiencing my age...Plus I don't want to seem like the bad guy, breaking his heart and all. Also, what if I do decide to give us some time off, and then realize he is the one, and he's already moved on. Please, some one give me some advice, I promise i'm very open minded. I need to have some help, I feel like I cannot turn to any one else!!!

Posted on 16 August 2007 @ 1:58 (London time) - permalink
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This no doubt isn't the way to answer your question, but it would be the only way that I could sort out the problem in my own mind. If it were mine. I wouldn't have an agreement "not" to be dating other men, Why? Because I would want to taste more of live before I ever committed the rest of my life into a marriage, that won't take place for another two years. If I were your man, this is what I would want, an open relationship where both of you can and should be dating others. Gee! What else can I say?

Posted on 24 August 2007 @ 2:58 (London time) - permalink
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