Break up

Today I broke up with my girlfriend after 1 and a half years of going out. For the first 12 months it was bliss I was so in love I was on cloud 9, then it all began to change, she would accuse me of cheating, go through my phone to try and find something and make ridiculous demands from me. On the week end just gone (24th/25th) is when it all began to end, she saw a text on my phone to a girl saying are you going out on Sunday (My ex new this girl and new alot of people were going out on Sunday)we had a massive argument, one in which she had to storm off home, an hour or so later she came back arguing some more and even made the foolish demand that I not only do not text this individual girl but also do not have girls as friends do not txt any girl and do not talk to girls (she was being serious) after she said that we argued some more until she stormed out again, the next day we talked on the phone and he list of demands were still there she wouldn't back down about them so I suggested we take a break, we did that is until today (27th) when she sent me an email (very long one) telling me how she felt and how we are, but still in this list was the no contact with the opposite sex, anyway later today we met and in her car we discussed our felling, I told her I wasn't and haven't been happy for the past few months we had tried to work on it, arguing then saying we'd change but didn't, after some extensive crying on her part and broken heart on mine we had to break up because she couldn't change her ways. I got out of her car and left. (On the drive back to my house James blunt's goodbye my lover came on and I couldn't keep it in all the tears came out in what felt like one go, even now as I write this I feel my heart ripping in two because I will always love her with every last piece of my heart)

Posted on 28 March 2007 @ 10:47 (London time) - permalink
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You made the right choice. There will be many other girls who aren't as insecure.

Posted on 22 July 2007 @ 4:19 (London time) - permalink
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Seems a waste of a relationship, to be together for that long you obviously care about each other. Insecurities can be fixed, talk to her.

Posted on 22 July 2007 @ 12:26 (London time) - permalink
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I say u should definitely talk to her. It's true...insecurities can be fixed...and the fact that she's insecure means that she's scared of losing u which means that she must love u a lot. Everyone's got mistakes and u can't expect her to be perfect. Think about it...there are far worse things a person can do than being insecure in their relatinship...u should've felt lucky to have had a girl who cared about u. And u obviously care about her very much too so u should really try to work things out.

Posted on 25 July 2007 @ 16:12 (London time) - permalink
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Yea I agree im very insecure and wouldnt like my boyfriend to have female friends (id be scared he would leave me for them) the thing is this is something within us it's not a reflection on you but you shouldn't end the relationship cause of it. This girl feels she would lose you in some way and made these demands to prevent it now she has lost you in another way and both of you are left feeling hurt. Would it hurt to much for you too stop texting this individual girl that she has asked you about. If you love your gf/ex you would do what will make her happy and her also. Think about all that she asked you and see if you can at least do some of them. Your girl should mean more to you that your female friends

Posted on 7 November 2007 @ 16:7 (London time) - permalink
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