was it my fault

thor, posted over a year ago

its a long story.

i met a girl 2 years ago. i fell for her straight away, we where like soul mates. after a few months i asked her to marry me she said yes straight away.

after a while i introduced her to my bro and his wife, they didnt like her. one night they came to my gf's house and i let them in, they wanted to phone for a taxi. they sat down. deb has pet rats, my bros gf picked one up then tried to kill it, deb took the rat off her and called her a cruel bitch. then a fight broke out. my friend got in first i was just a bit too slow. we finally got them out of the house. when we went to bed she was quiet for a while but just staring at my, i knew i was in trouble. then she said why did you let them in, why didnt you protect me then she turned away. she turned back and held my hand, when she let go she had put engagement ring in my hand. i was so upset i was speechless. a few months past and she still kept bringing this up all the time. then there was this guy in a club trying to persuade her to go out with him instead. he said have a night out with me i'll change your mind. one day she said to her son, her son loved me he kept calling me his dad. she said to him in front of me theres someone else after me should i leave berni and have him, he said no, she said but he has two dogs you like dogs and lots of money he can buy you things, he said yes marry him instead. that realy hurt me. when i was at my home at weekend with my son she took this guy up on his offer. next time i was at her house she was bragging about it saying he bought her drinks, bought her pizza then she stayed the night at his place but in spare bed. we finally got married, it was a great day, black wedding. things started to go down hill after then. she would argue all the time bringing what my bros wife done up and going on about how she could have had this guy. she said i should have broken her promise to marry me as she only done it because she promised.

i play in a band and i went away for two weeks, i called her every day, one day she said i have a guy moved in its ok hes just a friend. when i got back i never saw this guy but in bed she was awkward, she would get undressed in another room, no good night kiss no cuddle. this went on too long and her having a go at me so i got up one night and went back to my own house. she had my bags packed 2 weeks later she is seeing this guy that was staying there. my bro told me his wife hit her because she was seeing people while i was away. i never forgave his wife for hitting her. now we are going through a divorce. it didnt even last a year.

Posted on 24 March 2007 @ 4:18 (London time) - permalink
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livi, posted over a year ago

Hey there,

WOw!

You need to stop all this.

YOu need to tell your finace/g/ sort of person, that you made a mistake and you love her very much, but you think she is tepping out of line, also try and persuade ur bros gf to appoligise for hitting her. Tell her you her, but you think she is treating you really badly, tell her there are limits to how much you deserve. i really feel sorry for you mate.

Tell her exactly what your thinking and if she still acts out of line, perhapse she isnt worth your kindness.

Good luck with it all my friend : D

Posted on 24 March 2007 @ 10:55 (London time) - permalink
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thor, posted over a year ago

thanks for advice

i do realy love her, i told her a lot even on msn but she said stop saying it or i will block you. she is still with this guy she says she loves him so much and he does everything for her. but she told her ex before me the same things about me. i feel this guy is next for the chop. i met him he bought me a few drinks shook my hand. deb said he was feeling nervous because he thought i would have a go at him. i just stayed calm be an adult even if some things did get to me. he seemed a decent guy. i said to her not long ago being what i thought nasty but she keeps pushing me, i said look at your ex hubby look at me look at new guy , it wasnt looks that spoiled our relationship. we are now goiing through a divorce. she wants it so quick that she admitted adultry to get it over with quick

Posted on 24 March 2007 @ 16:33 (London time) - permalink
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livi, posted over a year ago

thanks for the reply,

she is behaving really stupid about it all from the sounds of things,

youd be better off with someone who can treat you well. Perhapse a divroce is the best thing, it means you wont have to face her being so cruel. try and stay being her mate and you never know here it could go from there. XX

Posted on 25 March 2007 @ 17:13 (London time) - permalink
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