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Break-up, Cheating

Eguy, posted over a year ago

i am in search for some advice. I been dating my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we just broke up. I been dating her since i was 17 and she was 16. Now i am 22 and she is 21. We do everything together and we both know each other's family. I choose to go to college and she chose to work. She was my world, my everything. I even sold my car so she can have the down payment to have the car she wanted. Ever since she got a new job shes been talking to one of her co=worker a lot on the phone. we have a family plan so i see the bil every month so i found out. She said it wasn't nothing and i believe her. then i found out She's been cheating on me with a co-worker now for about 3 months and I just found out last week. I came over to her house and she was naked in her room. And theni saw a her co-worker in the closet. I was shock and told the guy to leave before i do something stupid. it hurted when i first found out but i love too much to let her go. So i forgave her and told her it was a mistake and we can start over. She was saying that it was me know giving her enough attention and not listening to her problems. AND also how i always shower her with material goods and not emotions. then about a week later she tells me she doesn't want to be with me anymore and wants to be with the other guy. I don't know what to do. I am just stupid to still be in love with this girl. I need some advice on what i should do because it is killing me to know that she is with this guy and not me. I mean i kinda want her back but then it just feels so wrong. I don't want to let any of my friends know about this so i have no one to talk to. We have a very long history together and had our ups and downs, but this whole situation is new to be and i don't know how to act.

Posted on 13 February 2007 @ 16:15 (London time) - permalink
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sexylinzsexylinz, posted over a year ago

this needs to be posted on the main site

Posted on 15 February 2007 @ 15:32 (London time) - permalink
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