Getting back with my ex.

Nemi, posted over a year ago

My ex and I went out for almost a year and a half. For the first year or so everything was great, but the last few months were awful, we argued all the time and rarely got on well. Because I started uni about 9 months into our relationship I wondered if that could have made things worse, plus I had a lot of problems (which he has since helped me with) which I think may have brought him down.

The thing is he decided that I was too much work as a girlfriend and we broke up. We both still really love eachother and I know that we can work things out if I can just convince him to give me another chance.

Please can anyone give me tips on how I could get him back!

Posted on 1 June 2006 @ 22:3 (London time) - permalink
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Mother hen, posted over a year ago

Open your front door and shout out NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!

then think what you would have to do to have this guy back. if you are too much work now, what happens whenyou have kids, work problems, mortgages, you dont want someone who is not"there" for you. If you have to be on your best behaviour all the time and if life gets too much you will end up alone anyway. find someone who can love and support you and who you can do the same for. Good luck

Posted on 4 June 2006 @ 21:16 (London time) - permalink
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lillaum, posted over a year ago

I agree. TOO MUCH WORK? what a horrible thing to feel like you are. Surly in a relationship you want to help your loved one out? I know I would. What would you feel if the boot were on the other foot? Would you think " ahh well, he is just to much hassle I'll dump him"? of course you wouldn't not if you loved him.

Posted on 5 June 2006 @ 2:51 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Well this depends. People don't automatically fall in love when they start dating, unless your mentality is premature and unrefined. You see, Nemi hasn't posted what her problems were. She didn't say what they argued about. So whatever "too much work" may be, we don't know.

Objectively, what was the foundation of their relationship based on? What were the problems that arose that caused such difficulty in the relationship to strain? How did the problems come about? What was so great about the relationship for the first 12 months?

Posted on 5 June 2006 @ 6:1 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

BTW, you should have posted this on the main site...

Posted on 5 June 2006 @ 6:2 (London time) - permalink
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