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With all I saw I am almost certain she was cheating, what do you think? Our relationship is now over.

Vessence, posted over a year ago

I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We really clicked. Soon after we started having a relationship and were both very smitten

After six months some cracks appeared and I suspected her though dismissed this to prior relationships going bad and me expecting the worse. She had always told me she would never cheat as her ex had and she was crushed by it.

When things seemed great around eight months into our relationship, one night I invited her over for dinner. She forgot and said she had things at home to work on.

I had to drive to the shop near our places and drove by to stop in as I often did and found a guys car who she knew from the same site prior to me at her house. I walked to the door and through the window beside the door could see no TV on and the bedroom door half open, with the lights out.

I knocked on the door and when she answered a few minutes later she was very harsh towards me and in her pj‘s. I noticed the bedroom door had been closed and a teddy bear which I had never seen was on the lounge also.

I asked her to explain and she threatened if I didn’t leave she would call the police, which was really strange. She denies anything was happening, claims they were having drinks and chatting, nothing more. Though the guys is a bit of a self proclaimed ladys man.

Our relationship is now over. Although with all I saw I’m 99.99% sure she was cheating, im still unsure. What do you think about this and also what do you think I should do?

Posted on 25 August 2008 @ 11:6 (London time) - permalink
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You might like to copy this to the questions page where you'll get a lot more answers, but I would have thought that if this guy's car was outside it's a dead giveaway. She didn't want to answer the door naked so slipped her pj's on.

Posted on 25 August 2008 @ 12:25 (London time) - permalink
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