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Archived questions from: March, 2018 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I started an affair as a FWB but we are so well matched!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiancé for 6 years now he is much older than me and I have just recently caught the eye of a wonderful man that is my age that has a good head on his shoulders and is very charming and respectful the only bad part is we are currently in long term ... (120 words)

How do I get through this breakup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have a long history. We were friends for many years and then about two and a half years ago, started a sexual relationship. We did everything together, and eventually decided to make it an official relationship about 8 months ago. Out of the blue, she dumped me ap... (927 words)

What do you do when a relationship has become boring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi what do you do when a relationship has become boring I’ve been with my fiancé for 4 years we never do anything together in that time we’ve been out for 6 meals and that’s it he never wants to do anything he gets stoned every day all day he was a borderline alcoholic so we ... (100 words)

I don’t want to deny him sex but how do I get my feelings across?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my bf now for 3 months and although he is 12 years older he can be romantic. He is African american and I'm Canadian (when we are not making love). But he can be a bit of a control freak when it come to our love making. He says what we do and how he wants it ... (279 words)

It feels like shes using me. Is she?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2452 days ago

31 March 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - We're dating for a few months, I'm 31 she's 22 last night she asked me to pick her up at her house and I didn't want to because I just don't want to get out of my house and as she lives far away I'm not into it driving right now, just a lazy day, nothing serious. And you know ... (200 words)

How do I handle dates where I don't want more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

31 March 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - Often when I go on dates with guys, it becomes apparent to me quite quickly if I'm interested or not. I'm always respectful and kind on dates. But I have a very flirtatious smile, so often if I smile too much, I notice guys are responsive and want sex or to get to know me ... (129 words)

How do I react. He ignored me but is now dating my best friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2455 days ago

31 March 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - If I met a guy in a club, asked him out, he gave me his number, I texted twice, he never responded. Months later I discover he is now having sex with my best friend. How should I react?... (39 words)

I'm not feeling the love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says that he loves me but I don't feel the love. I work and go to school and he has a full time job. I make time for him. I have a longer day than him where I get home around 12am to only get up at 6am. He still wants me to plan out dates and what not even though ... (148 words)

I always hurt my girlfriend unintentionally

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 997 days ago

31 March 2018 (M)

age 22-25 - hi, I have been dating this girl whom I love and adore a lot. The thing is for the past few months, I hurt her always unintentionally. I care about her but she thinks it's not enough. I get angry easily when she picks fights over silly things that leads to a bigger fight bec... (113 words)

Why won’t he respond to me and give me back my things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

31 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been involved with a guy from work for over a year now he was originally an affair from which I left a violent relationship. Things were going well although there has been a lot if issues a long the way financial and emotiobal more me struggling to cope after the v... (431 words)

He broke up with me but I'm worried he will hurt himself

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

30 March 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a guy 16 months ago and fell instantly in love , although I felt he was too young and good looking for me he suffers ptsd and seemed to need me . He had no money and was struggling with breakdowns etc I helped him loads with money etc . He told me his meds lowered his ... (445 words)

Exes, babies, sex and love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

30 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I need advice. I am so confused. I am a 30 year old female in a 2 year relationship with a great guy who is just 6 years older than me. Prior to this relationship I was in a 10 year relationship with a lovely man who was 16 years older than me. I loved that man, ... (500 words)

What is he hiding??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2371 days ago

30 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 17 and a half years now. Just recently he has become secretive. He deletes things off of his cell phone, and goes to a different room when he talk's. Could he be cheating or hiding something?... (43 words)

I love another boy but don’t know how to break up with my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2456 days ago

30 March 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Well, l am kind of in a weird situation, there was a boy who l had a crush on, but l thought he wasn't in to me. We grew up together and we did things we shouldn't have (anything other then sex*) but l thought we were just messing around, and he really didn't love me. He is 4 ... (166 words)

Have I hit my dirty 30's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

30 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently turned 35, and am wondering, if I have hit my dirty 30s late? I've been horny everyday since I turned 35. ... (26 words)

I wasnt able to get off during sex, want to break up but feel I cant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

29 March 2018 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so to start from the beginning, I met this girl on tinder about a month ago. Lets call her Amy, Amy and I finally met in a coffee shop after two weeks of on and off chatting. She is really cool, we are basically the same person but different genders, same favorite games ... (341 words)

Why my brother is giving me silent treatment ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

29 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sorry ..i know this is a forum where people only discuss about their love problems. I have been a part of this forum for a long time..My issue is related to my family so i decided to share it here only.I don't know whether i am allowed to do that or not ? My younger bro... (464 words)

I feel like I am being pressured into having sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

29 March 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 years now, at first we were having sex all the time whenever possible, as it usually is when youre with someone new. Now it has calmed down a bit and I am completely okay with that but he is not. Its like if I ever say I am tired ... (149 words)

Do gay guys like men who are on the down low?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

29 March 2018 (M)

age - Do gay guys, have fwb,with guys who, have girlfriends, do they like having guys like that. Cause am thinking about asking a gay guy I know, if he would like taking my virginity, I have fantasies, about having sex with him, all the time, when I do myself it's always, him am ... (81 words)

I’m not over my ex, in a new relationship but feel numb, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2457 days ago

29 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya I was with my ex boyfriend over 2 year we split up 6 years ago and I still can’t get over him I was completely in love with him but I was young and didn’t know how to express it he was 8 years older than me I was 26 he was 32 he didn’t treat me very good but I see him ... (134 words)

What’s wrong with people? Or am I the freak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

29 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - What makes a good friend? I’m a quieter person, a little socially awkward but better than when I was in my 20s, when I was hopeless due to teen bullying and never having real friends, only users and fake friends. i am not intellectually impaired, average intelligence, ... (308 words)

I think she has betrayed my loyalty and trust!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

29 March 2018 (M)

age - I have a partner of 4+ years. We are 1,200 miles apart. I plan to join her in 6 months. She has vociferously prioritized loyalty and trustworthiness. I have been 100% loyal since we parted 5 months ago. Well, she went out with some girlfriends last Friday evening to a dance ... (304 words)

Is my husband being shady, buying a gift for a coworker?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband recently bought a gift for a female coworker. I found text messages of him asking other people what this female coworker likes. When I saw the gift, I asked him, oh who is this for and he ignored my question and started talking about other things. I later saw ... (122 words)

Could this guy have a girlfriend, can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - There’s this guy I like and we tend to flirt a lot when we’re around each other. Mainly playful flirt. However he has never explicitly mentioned a gf. And on his cel-phone he has a picture of a random sexy girl (a body builder girl). He even once told me he likes bodybuilder ... (104 words)

Am I right to not trust him? Can a marriage survive on no trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for 12 years, have 2 beauitful children. Recently found out that a woman my husband works with has a crush on him. They've worked together for 18 months but I was led to believe that they just worked for the same company, in different departments and ... (144 words)

Should I accept a screen role with nudity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi uncle and aunties. I need some advice. I am an aspiring actress who is still in the middle of completing my bachelors degree at uni. I have done occasional work in TV commercials when I was a child growing up in my home country. I have also acted as an extra in several ... (703 words)

I'm really into my best friend's ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so this is a very simple story. I am extremely into my best friends ex. We were really good friends while they were dating, and she brought us closer. I always found myself helping them out, and literally being to solution to their problems. But even as they were dat... (215 words)

We're almost breaking up over the question of having kids in the future but am I being irrational?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2460 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry this is rather long... I started dating a man 10 years older than me last year. We are serious going now and eventually the subject of children had to come up and it did. Before, it was something that was mentioned by both and brushed off by both but our recent conve... (829 words)

Anyone have friends or family who knew of your partners affair and DIDN'T tell you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

28 March 2018 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2008 till now we still together in 2017. The affair ... (240 words)

Our affair ended but now I have to see her every day at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - I had friendship with same gender best friend that turned into more, we had a 2 month physical affair. She has ended the affair and is staying with her husband and teenager but we work together. How do I get over her and handle seeing her everyday at work?... (49 words)

Is it unreasonable for me to question their friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2461 days ago

28 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 7 months has a best friend who is a girl and I was fine with it at first as they have been friends for 2 years before I got with him. She always hangs out with all our mutual friends in a group and has often joined us both on evenings out and I thought she wa... (294 words)

Boyfriend has a bruise on his neck. Is he cheating? I'm afraid to ask

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

27 March 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I saw a strange bruise on my boyfriend's neck yesterday. He always accuses me of cheating but I've been very faithful. We've been together for over a year and it has been really hard. I made the mistake of lying to him about going to a party about 6 months ago. I was getting ... (593 words)

Is it my destiny to be forgotten?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1097 days ago

27 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it normal to be "invisible" to everyone? I know there are billions of us on this planet and we are all invisible unless we are famous, but that's not what I mean..! Am talking about to those who know us in life.. friends colleagues at work family aquaintances... (462 words)

Should I keep trying to work things out after my girlfriend cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

26 March 2018 (M)

age 41-50 - Kate and I started seeing each other two years ago, February 2016. We liked each other a lot... we had unprotected sex on the first date and saw each other 2-3 times a week for about four months. Usually we would visit a museum or show, wander about town, get dinner, then she ... (1156 words)

Am I wrong to not be friends with my ex because he’s re-established contact with the woman he was hitting on behind my back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2459 days ago

26 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I broke up about two months ago because he's moving away. Now, in the beginning of us dating and getting to know each other we had an issue with him talking to and hitting on this one girl behind my back. I ended it with him when I found out and he freaked out and ... (253 words)

I would like a fresh perspective, as if there is something I could be doing that would make things better I would do it, or I’m doing something that I shouldn’t be then I need to know!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

26 March 2018 (F)

age 41-50 - Please note this is a long read: I’m after some none biased honest feedback/comments regarding my relationship with my boyfriend of just over a year. We have a strong connection and when we have fun, we really do - we’re silly together, and are both very positive and excit... (1599 words)

We’ve been dating 18 months! Do these signs he’s been giving indicate anything?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

26 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Been dating a guy for 18mnths. We havent ever said we love each other but we know we care deeply for each other. The other morning we were "making out" (we've never had sex) and he was on top of me. He gradually stopped and then just looked in my eyes and at my lips for what ... (146 words)

I feel a lightning bolt of attraction but he's 30 years older and married

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

26 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve met a coworker who I have intense physical chemistry with, and I mean we both just vibrate around each other. His hands shake and I feel electricity all through my body just walking past him or making small talk. He feels we must be some sort of soulmates. The attraction ... (234 words)

Should I sleep with him ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2453 days ago

26 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - So roughly four years ago I met a young man who was not from the same country that I was from and he was only in town for a couple days so we exchanged information just to stay connected. We were both in relationships at the time, however our conversation together when we met ... (324 words)

Has any of you ever had a pause in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

25 March 2018 (F) age 41-50 - Has any of you ever had a pause in life? Like a decade long pause? What does one do? It's not something I planned, it just sort of happened. I moved with my husband to a foreign country when I was about 30 (had to) and in a blink of an eye I turned 40. We were focused on... (342 words)

My boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his brother says him and I had sex

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

25 March 2018 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now whom I love dearly. I’m 28 and he’s a year older. We live together. So my boyfriend wants me to take a lie detector test because his pathological liar of a younger brother said that we slept together but that’s a lie. His broth... (487 words)

Was I unreasonable in not accepting my ex boyfriend's friend (female)?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2460 days ago

25 March 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a row with my boyfriend and we broke up last year. I am torturing myself every day with the thought that I was unreasonable and it was my fault. I cannot move on in my mind. I am replaying the whole relationship over and over. My issue was basically that I felt he was ... (777 words)

Boyfriend wants to break up because he has exams and can't devote as much time to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2462 days ago

25 March 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - I’m 15 and my boyfriend if 16 we’ve been together for 9 months now , he’s approaching his exams (GCSEs ) and is getting very stressed . Recently he said that it’s best if we break up as he feels as though He’s not giving me enough attention and that I’m not happy . However I’m ... (154 words)

Why did he refuse to cuddle me after being intimate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

25 March 2018 (F)

age 26-29 - I knew this guy from uni a few years back, I think we always had a thing for each other or were always at least attracted to each other. Whenever he used to see me, he would get nervous. We ended up seeing each last night and I went back to his house and we had sex. He foll... (192 words)

He has a girlfriend but he took my virginity and I think he's the "one" for me

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 2450 days ago

25 March 2018 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I’m in love with a taken guy. We’ve been through so much together. He took my virginity, we fell asleep together, and his mom absolutely loves me. She’s constantly asking about me and says that I should come over more. BUT, he has a girlfriend. He says she’s 100% fine with ... (390 words)

How do you handle flirty guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - I think I have written this before, not sure... So I'm 30 and right now I have been going to the gym. I get along with my trainer very well to the point that he teases me, tickles me and what not. I actually like him, but I do know (because he has told me) that he likes bu... (208 words)

Am I crazy for wanting to blow up my marriage and the last 20 years for my first love from 30 years ago?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 March 2018 (F)

age 51-59 - I arrived at this site searching on line for "I'm still in love with my boyfriend from 30 years ago", (sigh). I read a really good post, similar to my issue, but in many other ways not similar. My college BF - we will call him "T" - definitely my first love, we were together... (1050 words)

Why do some girls get more guy attention than others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 March 2018 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it that some girls always have boyfriends or get all the male attention. I am 30 and have only had one partner in my life and real bf. My friends always seem to have met a guy at the gym or school. I got to school and the gym and meet guys but nothing goes beyond that. ... (80 words)

Is it too late to start a relationship at 30, having never dated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

24 March 2018 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 31-year old guy with a question that's been plaguing my mind recently. I can't help but wonder if it's too late at my age to date or have a relationship if I've never done either before. I've never been in a relationship or even been on a date due to a number ... (306 words)

Aren't children supposed to stay near to their family so they can comfort them? Not move far away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2454 days ago

24 March 2018 (M)

age - Ever since I can remember, my daughter, 30, has complained bitterly about the state we raised her in: North Carolina. When the kids were young, we moved our family from North Carolina from Florida for a better life in North Carolina, but she's so ungrateful and wants to move ... (80 words)