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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I caught some feelings for a guy who I think is playing me and its destroying me. What am I left to do, why do I feel the way I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My purpose of this q is to find out WHY I feel what I do, so I can find the reason and put a stop to it. I cannot be in love. So what is it? I am tired of this sorrow and hurt but I don’t know what it IS. I’m hung up on a guy who I had sexual relations with for 2 months. ... (411 words)

Did my boss proposition me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I had this wiered convorsation with my boss. Think he might have propositioned me but not sure. I now feel very awkward at work. Him: Do you ever think about doing something you shouldn't do? Me: No never I'm a saint. Do you? Him: All the time. Me: You think abo... (1517 words)

Is my boyfriend's fear of commitment normal or something we should both be concerned about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly a year. It's the deepest connection I've ever felt with someone and he feels the same. Like puzzle pieces fitting together. But my other half is scared of commitment. As he puts it, half the time he wants to ask me to marry him ... (352 words)

My husband won't let me go back to dancing at the strip club so I'm leaving him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - My situation is far from conventional and I'm prepared to get some hate. I met husband while dancing at a strip club in Las Vegas. We fell hard and fast for each other, got engaged quickly and married quickly. I moved to Texas to be with him and left everything behind. We were ... (186 words)

I'm feeling guilt and shame about meeting up with my ex when my now fiance and I were first dating

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Hope you can help with a dilemma. I met a great guy 18 months ago and now we are engaged. Our first two weeks were strange though. He was convinced it was the real deal me less so. Two weeks later we split before getting back together after a week apart. My... (231 words)

LDR girlfriend is back in touch with her ex- how do I avoid letting jealousy ruin things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

29 February 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi All Ive been with my partner a while now, it is LDR but we have done the usual normal couple stuff, gone on hols etc and talk every night, and see each other every week (and spend all our hols together). We are planning to move in together in 5 months from now when we have... (380 words)

Beautiful girlfriend makes me feel worthless

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

29 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - I really need help. My girlfriend is threatening to break up with me and it seems all I do is not enough. Right now she's telling me she's broken up and that she doesn't want me. But come later that may change. It's the same yesterday. We agreed to have 7 days for me to pr... (343 words)

Could my personal trainer have a crush on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

29 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 and he is 36 and is married according to his FaceBook. When I first met my personal trainer, he kept looking deep into my eyes with the biggest smile. He then texted me asking how my day has been and when I am starting, to have a good holiday etc. A few weeks later when ... (643 words)

Might my friends with benefits be developing feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - This might be a silly question but I am seriously wondering if my friend with benefits might be developing feelings for me. So for the past three months or so he has been very attentive, calling and texting me all the time. He keeps asking questions about my personal life, w... (143 words)

I need to break my duck with girls

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3217 days ago

28 February 2016 (?) age 30-35 - How to get over being a virgin? I'm turning 23 and no matter what I've tried it hasnt worked out. I've dated a couple girls in high school but we were "too young" to have sex according to the girls. We loved each other when we were dating but we were only 16 and never got... (331 words)

Is my ex manipulating me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, is my ex boyfriend trying to manipulate me? My 3 year relationship ended several months ago. He told me he was no longer happy and that he met another woman and was very sorry for hurting me. Only about 3 weeks after our break up, he started dating that woma... (476 words)

My ex has taken a shine to one of my closest friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - My ex-boyfriend (of 2 years) and i broke up and its been rocky ever since (and by rocky i mean absolutely awful, one second we'll be joking around and then next were screaming at each other), he's now trying to get with one of my closest friends of 10 years. its awful because ... (202 words)

We broke up in November but still coming to terms with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! So my boyfriend of 6 years ended our relationship back in november, just as we were about to move in together. We left it a few weeks then started meeting up again. But the past week he just ignored me, so I finished it. I don't deserve that. I feel ... (196 words)

I transferred all my contacts to my new iPhone but I think this girl thinks I stalked her account for it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - So I used to hangout with this girl 2 years ago we stopped hanging out cause I stopped showing up or didn't get the ques she wanted to hangout.She usually texts me first but I havnt really had a good conversation with her in a year but I kept her number still. My galaxy ended ... (145 words)

I've been intimate with my widowed aunt and now she wants me to live with her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello guys I am 30 yrs married now n I am from India where relationships matter a lot. My question is about the physical relationship with my maternal uncle's wife( aunt) This goes around 6 yrs ago due to my uncles death my aunt got disturbed n at that time I was living t... (113 words)

Finding a nice guy makes me want to run. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I dumped my emotionally and verbally abusive BF about 4 months ago. I have absolutely no feelings towards him and am thrilled to get him out of my life. When I date, I tend to be a "woman who loves too much". Each relationship I have had ends in me having to recreate myself ... (355 words)

He says I lack spontaneity. I hate lies. He lied to his family. Was my reaction right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friends, I've just had a stupid argument with my husband. We made up, but I would still like to hear your opinions as I strongly believe that I am right. Here's what happened. I hate lying. But, I agreed to support him with this particular lie he devised. For some... (462 words)

Have I rushed into dumping him ? How can I ask him for another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know if ive made a mistake , I dumped my boyfriend yesterday because i came last in his life. I know work and family come first. I wouldnt expect to come before them, but he couldnt give me the time i wanted. I'm not demanding. I'd be happy with once a week and now I'v... (94 words)

Texting. Is there a difference between a big X or a little x in a text from a man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hi I am 40 and been briefly texting a guy that I know. After our initial chat by text I text him again on Friday and we had a 4.5 hour chat by text and as we were having a drink his texts became more loose but nothing bad and eventually we stopped texting as I wanted to go to... (163 words)

To parents of children or people who are childfree by choice. Do you regret your decision?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to hear from people who have children and those who don't. Do you regret your decision or are you sincerely happy with your choice to become a parent or childfree? I have terrible mental illness genetics in my family line so I'm leaning towards being childfre... (100 words)

The ex factor. Can anyone think of anything that might help or make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. A year before we got together he was dumped by his high school sweetheart who he was with for five years. At first he talked quite a lot about his ex and the way he talked... (279 words)

Any ideas on what to do about my Bf who stares at women too often and for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years we have a baby girl together. The problem is everywhere we go he stares at other women and it makes me feel so unattractive and unwanted, as he never shows me any affection nor love. Nor tells me I'm attractive. It's not just... (87 words)

Communication issues with my 21 year old partner. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi So i'm getting pretty desperate for someone to talk to about my relationship problems, and i've put off asking for help so many times because there's so much that needs including in the explanation that you would end up reading an essay. So instead I thought i'd post ... (465 words)

Dating a 37 year old guy. How can I tell him to use anti- wrinkle cream in a nice way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend is 37, happy guy and it takes much to irritate him. Though he doesn't look far older than his age, his face wrinkles a lot especially when he smiles. I can't change this fact but it might at least be lessened if he uses moisturizer or any anti-aging cream an... (121 words)

Dating. How long should I wait for some kind of chemistry to develop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

28 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm dating this guy, he's 30, and though we get along really well I'm not feeling the attraction. And I know attraction is overrated, but I notice myself thinking I hope he doesn't put his arm around me or kiss me goodnight, because I'm just not into the idea. Today has... (170 words)

Am I doing the right thing? I want to know if my ex may consider a serious relationship with me in the future. Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunts and Uncles I dont want to mess this up again as I never had any one to advise me on relationships when I was growing up so I made lots of mistakes. Cutting a long story short, I met up with my ex mid last year. Had a few dates and became intimate. He even ca... (353 words)

I met a woman on a dating site, we had a nice first date but now, she's stopped responding. Any advice appreciated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

27 February 2016 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice here. So, I met this woman on OKCupid and we started writing to each other. I noticed that she logged in only once a week but she did respond whenever she logged in. The messages were also good. If I wrote 2 paragraphs her reply was also 2 paragraphs, if I ... (414 words)

How do I backtrack on the date plans and do something more "appropriate"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy on a dating site which I was just using on a "see how it goes" basis - met him once and he was cute, so we said we'd meet up again. Texted for over 2 weeks since but we've been busy so we're meeting up next week. I said from the beginning I wasn't looking for a hook ... (157 words)

We kissed on our last date. Should I stay with her, even though I am not attracted to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

27 February 2016 (?) age 30-35 - Dating a girl I'm not completely attracted to? I met this girl on a dating app and we've been on two dates so far. I like her personality so far and think shes kind of pretty but I'm not as attracted to her like I was with other girls I've dated(limited). On th... (134 words)

Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

27 February 2016 (M)

age - I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks their hearts, for a guy, that's a... (178 words)

I made an awful first impression, how can I 'correct' it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i need advice on a dating matter . i am an extremely shy person and i went on a date with a wonderful guy the problem is i drank before meeting him it gave me too much confidence i know how to handle my drink but wanted rid of all the nerves. no i didnt go back to his o... (238 words)

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the way he reacts when toddlers an... (263 words)

Should I be this unsettled about the fact he still has a key to the family home? He's separated from his wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My new boyfriend of three months is separated after a 20 year marriage ended six months ago. They outgrew each other and there is no love lost for either of them. A divorce and house sale are going through amicably. He rents a flat near his wife and grown up daughter. He sen... (181 words)

Am I a bad person, for now just wanting to have casual sex since a breakup?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

27 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently been dumped by my boyfriend of three years and I'm relieved about it as he didn't treat me very well and did some things that were awful by anyone's standards. But I'm having a bit of a freak out thinking I will always just give people chances when they don't ... (449 words)

Would it be crazy to leave my husband who gives me everything for a man who couldn't give me what I have?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

26 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice.... Firstly what I'm about to admit is horrible - I'm not here for sympathy or understanding and I know I'm completely 100% in the wrong and nobody could be more disgusted with me than I am. I married my long term boyfriend of 6 years ,2 years a... (412 words)

What did my ex girlfriend mean by this statement?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

26 February 2016 (M)

age 51-59 - For starters, I am aware that I need to move on and stop obsessing over my ex, but there are some things that still confound me to this day. I wonder if she ever really loved me or if she loved how I made her feel instead. Understand what I'm getting at? I saw her recently... (233 words)

Why am I having recurrent dreams of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

26 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't stop having dreams about my ex. My ex and I dated for 4 months almost a year ago. And we didnt have the best relationship, because we were very different. He didn't like drinking or going out to dance, and I wanted to at times. Also, we had no sexual chemistry and ... (348 words)

A is a long term good friend. How can I convince my mum to let A spend the night?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

26 February 2016 (F)

age 22-25 - So, here's the deal. I have a good friend, let's call him A. Anyway, ever since I was little, I've always preferred hanging out with boys. But now that I'm older, I can't have a sleepover or anything. I wouldn't want to do anything sexual, and definitely not sleep in the same ... (89 words)

I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

26 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because im usually exhausted from him... (292 words)

How Can I win her back in one weekend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

26 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - How soon do you spend a whole weekend with your ex girlfriend? It's been a week and another week before that we weren't speaking after we argued. She dumped me, we start talking again, taking trips down memory lane, saying the I miss and love you. I fancy you, I want yo... (170 words)

Should I have sex with him finally?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

25 February 2016 (F)

age 26-29 - There's this guy who knows how to flirt really well with women...I don't think he's ever cheated, or that he's really a player, but he's good with getting women comfortable with him. So like everyone else I think I may be really starting to like him. I might fall in love wit... (139 words)

Was I rude earlier? I need help learning how to communicate with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

25 February 2016 (M)

age 26-29 - There's a girl at my job who I'm very attracted to but things aren't really able to move forward the way I'd like. I'm not able to talk to her because I'm simply too nervous, and I'm sure I probably come off as rude now because when she's spoken to me in the past, my resp... (159 words)

How do I manage this family dynamic and new stress in our lives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3222 days ago

25 February 2016 (M)

age - You probably don't get too many letters from a guy my age. I am writing about my kids. My oldest, my daughter-age 27- meets this British guy at party.He works for a multinational U.K. company and is trying to deal with problems in one of their offices here. They date for abo... (368 words)

Facing sibling rivalry and family disinterest in my wedding. Should I delete them from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

25 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - Its not that I'm an attention seeker I'm the opposite but I'm starting to feel a damper on my wedding and its affecting me a lot lately. Had I known my family would not care about the wedding I would have eloped if i know how much it affects me. My wedding is in 3 months t... (717 words)

Is this a break-up? Boyfriend and I haven't talked in 3 days after argument. Please help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

25 February 2016 (F)

age 30-35 - On Monday me and my boyfriend got into a fight over something small and now he hasn't said one word to me in 3 whole days ! I'm worried. I don't want it to be over I just wanna work it out . yesterday he called and let it ring 3 times and hung up but I don't know if he was do... (201 words)

I am on the verge of being divorced over a dog! Dog left me for the dog!

This question has 84 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

25 February 2016 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I have been together for 2.5 years and married for 5 months. Our relationship was picture perfect. No arguments, completely devoted to each other etc. Not to mention he stepped up and has been a father to my 2 kids from a previous marriage. I've done everything ... (377 words)

How do I find enjoyment in life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3220 days ago

25 February 2016 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I find enjoyment in life? People say find a hobby, but I don't seem to want to do anything. I feel that feeling passionate about anything at all could help me pass the time but I can't find anything remotely interesting. Every day I just come back to my (almost empty) ... (180 words)

How do I contact this married man to tell him I'm pregnant? I want him to help support me!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

25 February 2016 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I'm the op of this post "He lied to me..he was cheating on his wife with me. Do I tell her?", which I posted a month back. I found out that I'm pregnant few days back and I'm positive he is the father since I didn't have sex with anyone before or after him. I ... (258 words)

LDR boyfriend isn't taking pride in his appearance and its turning me off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3223 days ago

24 February 2016 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I'm in a LDR of a year now. My guy is by nature a big framed man, who has struggled with his weight on and off from what he says. He talked about diets etc and gets fired up, buy never actually sticks to them, and recently having managed to lose some weight, hes put it back ... (181 words)

His comment was so vague! How do I read into it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3223 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and had noticed this guy that I thought I had recognised from years ago but didn't feel I could go up and ask him. I left my number with the local coffee shop for him and he text me that same day and turned out that he used to live in the same area as me 50 ... (203 words)