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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

So men, does it have to be one or the other? Do you think he just doesn't want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age - I am a good person, devoted and loyal to my boyfriend. Problem is his porn addiction and total obsession with woman, his rude comments hurt and he knows I don't like it, but hasn't stopped. Sex is very rare and mostly he wants oral sex. I'm lonely and unhappy. Feel like he ... (107 words)

I'm living with Hydrocephalus and my parents aren't allowing me to make my own decisions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a student who is looking to transfer from community college to WSU Vancouver next year but my parents won't let me move. The reason why is because I have a hydrocephalus VP shunt and they believe the school is too far from home when it is only two hours away. I am ... (175 words)

Boyfriend like swinging, me not so much. Will I be enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - The general dilemma is that my boy for three years likes to swing, or likes the idea of swinging. After a few times of play,.. I have realized that I am not so much. about 6 months after we started dating we looked into one of his previous "fun accounts!" we added both of ou... (483 words)

Should I apologize to my married co-worker for the touchy feely session we had?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

31 May 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I'm a gay man and recently went on a work trip with a straight co-worker (who knows I am gay).We went out one night and got very drunk. We ended up back in my hotel room having a nightcap. We got to taking our shirts off to compare bodies, and there was some touching ... (131 words)

I really liked her but she changed jobs and I don't see her now. Do I tell her of my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this other woman who I was working with and felt close to her. I am really shy and confused. I think about her all the time. she moved jobs and now I don't see her but still keep in contact. Do I try and tell her that I have feelings for her or will she reject me?... (60 words)

How will my husband ever forgive me for being unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles. I have been married for four years and have two children with my husband. I absoloutly adore him. However, at a hen party two years ago, in a moment of madness, i kissed another man. It wasnt a proper kiss, as there were no tongues etc, but it was still so ... (251 words)

I'm not very confident but think he likes me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3466 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I've liked this guy for a while now and I think he's liked me even before I started to like him (romantically, I've always liked him as a person since I've met him). But the thing is, I don't actually know if he likes me. What should I even do about it because I don’t want to ... (517 words)

Wife and I don't talk anymore ,house is silent. Any ideas on how to break this behavior?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

31 May 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I need an advice on how to turn thigs back to where there were with my wife. We ve been married for more than 20 years. Our only child went to college across the country and stayed there to live. So, it's just 2 of us in a house. I have to admit that I was not the exampler... (906 words)

Does sex before marriage cause boredom once married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - do having sex before marriage create boredom towards each other? that is not to get married?... (16 words)

How can I find out who a phone number belongs to? They keep calling/texting but I don't know who it is!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Is there any way you can do a reverse phone look up for a US phone number? FREE? I am pretty sure it could be a mobile phone. Any FREE sites, services, resources? This phone number from Florida keeps calling me and texting me. How can I find out w... (78 words)

Two years and I'm still not over him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) age 36-40 - My life is just miserable. My ex dumped me about 2 years ago. I'm moving on very very slowly. I blocked his Facebook page, deleted all the pictures, put away everything that would remind me of him. I even moved abroad and focused on myself only. He's tried to contact me a ... (205 words)

Should I let the urge to contact my ex boyfriend just pass?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Its been 7 months since the last time we spoke.We were on and off for few years because the distance was a huge factor since neither of us was ready to move. We live 4 hours apart and it was too much not being able to see each other whenever we want. He ended up meeting ... (288 words)

How to deal with the games she's playing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf, 23 ,of 6 months is playing hard to get by randomly saying she has a new bf shes known for two months. Shes been nice and not distant. Ive proven myself to her several times in which she acknowledged back then. I talked face to face to her oldest and closest sibling her ... (108 words)

He's dragging his feet over a second meeting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - About a month ago I met this great man online. He had some health problems and we weren't able to meet in person for a while but we'd spend long hours texting on Skype or talking on the phone. Finally, the day came in which we met. We spent the whole afternoon together and ... (211 words)

In a long distance relationship at the moment but I want sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had been away for about 8 months now . He went of to study in Wyoming and I am in Illinois. I have been going through allot without him and I am having a really hard time being faithful. In a relationship I am always a hot head. I always need to be having some type ... (136 words)

Should I let the urge pass to contact my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

How to prove that he is not cheating while its 99% he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey there I met a guy online through a gay dating app 3 months ago, I am 30 and he is 20 years Things were fine , I liked him from the first beginning and I couldn't get enough from him ! he said and acted the same ! I had trust issues with him from the beginning, but ... (731 words)

Should I tell the other girl about his cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I just found out 2 days ago (by chance) that the guy I have started dating has a girlfriend. He doesn't know that I know this as I havnt confronted him yet. I'm feeling so hurt as I love him but I will obviously not see him again now I know he is a cheater/player. I'm SO ... (331 words)

I want to meet my online guy but my parents likely won't allow it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I really want to meet this guy that I have been having contact with for more than 2 years. We always Skype and usually text or talk on the phone. He's willing to pay for my flight but I have a dilemma. My parents are pretty strict, I am almost 21 but I ... (631 words)

What am I doing wrong? I am homeless, pregnant and I think the other women in the shelter do not like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

31 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Am a new immigrant. Came to live in the u.s with my sister 3 months ago but she kicked me out onto the street after facing the realities of a pregnant woman..i.e throwing up and bring generally slow and demotivated. She knew I was pregnant before I came so it hurt me much ... (500 words)

Do men want kids as much as women? Can men have a strong desire for children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Is a man's desire to have kids as strong as a woman' s? Obviously this requires a bit of generalisation - there are plenty of women that don't want kids, and plenty of men that do - but are men generally a bit more ambivalent towards kids?... (48 words)

I do trust him, but I am uncomfortable with it. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have a great relationship. We communicate openly and generally its a very loving and honest relationship. He's visiting his family in the US. We both live in another country but are planning to move the... (386 words)

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the beginning. Just wondering if the... (89 words)

How can I stop obsessing about what I did 18 months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I have a bit of a rumination problem, and have been a big over thinker since being a child. I am torn apart at the minute over guilt I am carrying from an incident that happened a year and a half ago. My partner and I are engaged,... (1317 words)

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless to say I come here often to ve... (352 words)

Want my ex boyfriend back but how. running out of ways

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex have been broken up since April. I have tried all I can think of to get him back etc told him how I feel, asked him out again stopped being as needy. Alot of girls always try and flirt with him alot. I like him alot even though we was only together a short period. ... (144 words)

My ex and I talk/text sexual things but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My son's father and I are not together anymore. We haven't been for over a year. He's had another gf for about a year. I've been single since we ended things. About 6 months ago, he and I were talking and things started to go in a sexual direction. Nothing happened but ... (196 words)

My boyfriend never wants to go anywhere or do anything with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I be been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years we used to every thing together and we always found something to do together. But now we do nothing at all. I always have to do things by myself because he never wants to leave this house unless its to go see his ... (162 words)

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly the older a guy gets and he ... (176 words)

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last year but I've begun to wonder whe... (468 words)

Why does my boyfriend barely keep in touch while he is out of town? is it suspicious? It's upsetting.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is away for four days visiting his mother in California. We were together for the whole week before he left. We really bonded and had an amazing time together. Fast forward to the day after he gets to California. He emails to let me know he got there and... (769 words)

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though she had moved overseas, he sti... (759 words)

Why is this happening? Anything I've said has sparked an argument this week.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been arguing since Monday and its now Saturday. I booked a week off from work to redecorate my room back home where I'll be moving back to in September. Early Monday when it came to me getting ready to leave, my boyfriend asked if I could take him t... (154 words)

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he himself was vaccinat... (88 words)

Is there any chance we could end up with a deeper relationship? Am I fool thinking I can wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Figure I might just see if any old souls can offer wisdom. Almost a year ago now, I met a girl in an interesting state of mind, who recently broke up with her boyfriend. We work together at a late night restaurant which I rent an apartment above, and I would often run into h... (443 words)

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywhere else just because i sent h... (146 words)

Will he really choose love over religion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each other and have been together ... (832 words)

Should I message him? Did I put him off by being a bit aloof in my response to his slightly gushing message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 May 2015 (F)

age - Hello I met a man through mutual friends and he contacted me via Facebook to ask me to join him at an event. I said yes and we then spent the week before the event messaging each other every day - I suppose getting to know each other. He is 60 and in the process of gett... (532 words)

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we would make things official.... (237 words)

I'm not planning on giving up on her.So advice please on how to get closer to her, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Close friends in high school for 3 years I occassionally asked her to movies via whatsapp, she said yes but with friends and that she may had a family trip. I stupidly sent her that i want es a one on one date. She replied: ooh, i thought it would be more fun to go with frien... (258 words)

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and going to bed. I have ment... (81 words)

What could be the reason I am so consistently declined for jobs I apply for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 May 2015 (?) age 30-35 - Hi there I started to feel sad and upset with my situation. I have a degree in event management and also worked for 2 years for a well known company with good money too. Since I had the baby I left the job because I was commuting long distance. Now whenever I go for a ... (106 words)

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm studying for professional qua... (796 words)

Is our relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time with me, all he is interest... (96 words)

Why do I continue to have drama in my life with friends? How can I be better, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I continue to have drama in my life with friends. No matter what I do, drama follows. Nothing seems to work. I still end up losing friends. I partly think it's because I expect so much from them. Whenever I have a friend, I expect them to treat me how I would treat them. I ... (168 words)

I have a crush on her, but is she just being nice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, So I am a lady who dates ladies. I have this amazingly gorgeous co-worker who isn't on my team but in my department and sits around the hallway from me. I honestly have no idea if she's straight/gay/bi, in a relationship, etc. She doesn't have any pictures or anyt... (191 words)

Is she rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

29 May 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - Very close friends in high school. We went on our first date, went pretty well. Pretty standart one After that, she didn't change the way she acts towards me in school. Asked for a second date. She couldn't. Asked for the following week. She also couldn't. To... (158 words)

I feel vulnerable, does that make me selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) age 30-35 - OK, I've been in a relationship for 6 months with my other half. I know it's not long but I do really care about him. Everything seems OK when we are together but I'm beginning to have cold feet. He is so blunt in his messages to me ( which he never was initially). He claims h... (238 words)

Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 May 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company 3 - 4 hours away. It's in a ci... (388 words)

I'm considering plastic surgery as I hate my jaw - advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 May 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in my early twenties. I'm not bad looking otherwise and do get attention but I have a huge jaw and chin (think Olivia Wilde but my chin is really wide too) I am not fat its just genetics. It means smiling with my mouth open looks horrible (I have a small mouth too which make... (249 words)