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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel so lost and don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi...I'm in such a mess right now that I honestly don't know how to solve....2 years ago I was in a relationship with a guy that I loved very much...we had problems and I came to the conclusion that it was best to call it a day after 4 years...BIG MISTAKE....about 3 months ... (391 words)

How can I know if my husband is gay or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been happily married for 13 years now. I have always had great sexual experience with my husband. I only felt it was not as often as I would want. I recently suspected he might be a gay??? there were several signs of it to me. Most shocking for me was I realized he was ... (268 words)

I'm confused about his motivations, if in fact he has any!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling a bit confused over how I feel about a guy and more importantly whether or not he likes me. The guy in question is my tennis coach and he's pretty good looking and we get on extremely well. I have lessons with him on my own and also in a group. In the individual l... (406 words)

She was insistent on including her daughters in our invitation to her and then she was a no-show! I wasted £300 on all 4 of them!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I got married over a month ago and I invited a friend of mine - we used to work together and became really good friends so I invited both her and husband to my wedding for the entire day. When my friend received her invite she called to ask if she could also bring... (526 words)

Is there is a possibility that he might like me back in the future as I can see him in my future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, me and this guy from Newcastle have been friends for 6 months now and he is my best friend that i can talk to him bout anything and he understands as he is 18. When it was 2 months into our friendship, i told him i liked him and he rejected me and we continued to be ... (101 words)

Would a single man of 45 who has never settled down give up his 'freedom' now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age - Hello and Thank you for reading. My question is about men/a man and I'd appreciate hearing from the male perspective as well as females. If a man is single at age 45 and has never felt ready to settle down but is now kind of shifting in that direction but not quite th... (257 words)

How do I live with the man and woman who were in a relationship behind my back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - About a month ago the guy I was seeing broke it off with me. We had been friends for around six months before finally getting together and currently live together in the accomodation at our university. We were very happy and very close. He was also very friendly with another ... (420 words)

How do I get over something like this? Are there no more morals or respect these days? I'm so hurt and I want him to feel my pain

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been suspicious about my fiance's activity so I broke off my engagement because he is talking and hanging out with his ex. We haven't even officially broke it off and he's been out with her and other friends. He's asked me to meet up with him for coffee this last ... (128 words)

How do I get over the break up of my first relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I was with my ex girlfriend for 6 months and about 4 months ago to this day we broke up. She broke up with me because she didn't want to be held down or this committed at this age (she's 17 I'm a few months older so I'm 18). I saw in one of her chats with her friends where sa... (102 words)

My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are thinking of having a non monogamous relationship. We have not yet figured the ins and outs of it yet but I'm not here to ask about that. I realise that most people here are not into the idea or sharing the marital bed so to speak... so if any of you have ... (284 words)

Should I try to win him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated a guy for a month and it was going so well at the beginning and we were both really into each other, but then he started to get too serious too fast after 2 weeks he told me he loved me and wants marriage and kids asking those kinds of questions. The thing is it takes... (271 words)

I burst into tears when I saw how my boyfriend lives in squalor, what now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My 38 year old boyfriend of one year knew I was on my way round. What I saw horrified me. He is living in complete squalor. Dirty filthy conditions I would not put a dog in. He smoothed over it all saying he's busy with work and replacing a chimney breast and ceiling. I ... (157 words)

I can't deal with regret, how do I fight these thoughts and try to make something worthwhile of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - When I was 18-21 I was fairly happy in life , I had a long term gf , started a new career in what I thought was good .. but I still was not sure what I wanted in life . The relationship ended and I lost loads of confidence in myself for the past 5/6 years I have been hiding... (278 words)

How do I become ok and comfortable with my sexuality?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3551 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm bisexual and ive known it for years now. I'm out to most of my friends but I'm not completely comfortable with it myself. I spend a lot of my time thinking about how I would be happier if I was straight. And I have a preference for girls so I spend a lot of time thinking ... (199 words)

Could we work or remain simply as friendly coworkers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Here's the thing. I live a life in shackles. Every waking day I'm reminded of what I have to live with. I have an illness caused/triggered by a traumatic incident I've experienced. I love my new/current job. My coworkers were so very welcoming and taught me much/i... (344 words)

How do I know the difference between gut instinct and paranoia?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. This question has two parts. Should you ever ask your BF if he finds another woman attractive and if he would ever fvck her? I asked my BF tonight if he would fvck this other woman we both know and he said not while he was with me. Then I said but would you if you... (592 words)

I feel at the moment that I'm just not capable of being the right type of person to manage a relationship. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - In the past I have been in emotionally abusive relationships and had an emotionally abusive parent. As a result I lack self worth and struggle with anxiety and depression. I've been in a relationship for four years and in that time I've done a lot of work on myself... Counsell... (424 words)

I need to change my thinking, my attitude. How can I make myself into a better person?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

31 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 32 years old and have a horrible personality it seems. I'm one of the most kindhearted people you'd ever meet, always put others before myself (I'm in the medical field actually) but I have such a negative hateful attitude. I want to change but I don't know how to begi... (931 words)

How to re-create the spark with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together for many years, broke up due to communication problems and thought we needed to part ways for awhile. We've kept in contact and have been talking about a reconciliation. During our BU, we worked on ourselves and tried moving on but we can't let go of ... (249 words)

We've known each other 2 weeks so what do you take from these messages?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I need your opinion please... I started talking to this guy, we started talking everyday for the first 4 days but then he stopped calling and says he us busy. It's a fact that he has a very bust job I understand but he doesn't even answer texts, which takes a minute. I've ... (156 words)

Does this sound as solely friendly to you guys?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, thanks in advance for reading! Hope you can give me some insights. I'm going to try and be as concise as possible. Basically I've just met a woman a couple of weeks ago and we had an instant click. Not necessarily sexual, but just in a friendly, fun manner - alt... (466 words)

My husband masturbates to porn and turns me away when I try to initiate!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice and opinion here. To sum it up in a gist, my husband has been married to me for two years now, but recently I found out that he masturbates to porn. This has happened several times. When I confronted him about it, he got agitated and said "it's a man thin... (201 words)

Is it normal to fantasize about another guy when you are married with kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, is it normal to fantasize about another guy when you are married with kids? We have been married for 22 years. I am for the most part happily married but when things don't seem to be going right--meaning a disagreement or frustration in our relationship--my mind does wander ... (137 words)

Do you think I've made the right decision to not attend this wedding, where my Bf will be the Best man?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - this may seem like a minor situation but it's stressing me out and im a grad student so extra stress is bad. A few months ago I had a falling out with my ex flatmates who are a couple. My boyfriend took their side which upset me. I posted on hereabout it but most of the comm... (237 words)

Why does my long term Gf still keep registering on dating sites? It's affecting our relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I've caught my long term girlfriend many times registered and active on different dating sites. I am not able to get to the root of it, because I always end up defending myself over extremely minor mistakes I made years ago (like being 10 minutes late once through no fault of m... (134 words)

How can I get through this mountain of pressure? A new baby, difficult birth, my mother died unexpectedly and my husbane and my sister have betrayed me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help! Hubby and I have been having marriage problems since the birth of my 2nd child and a difficult pregnancy and long recovery time (8 weeks) from an planned c section which ended up being an emergency as the surgeon made a medical error and almost killed me! Oh... (873 words)

My fiance never wants to have sex. How can I improve this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance never wants to have sex. I ask him all the time why and he tells me he is extremely self conscious of his penis. He won't let me touch his penis if I try to grab him. I know he loves me but I can't seem to fix this issue. I try to initiate love making with him ... (74 words)

His (now pregnant) one night stand is causing angst for us. Do I stand by my man and help him through this difficult time or leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help. My boyfriend of 5 years and i took a break. During this time he had a one night stand with a condom. Two months later we started going to counseling and everything seemed to be working out. He even proposed marriage and our communication was better than ever... (311 words)

Am I moving on too fast with the girl from my past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - So about a month ago I was cheated on and ended a 5 year relationship. Just the other week I reconnected with a girl from my past and we really hit it off. I'm a little uneasy because I don't know if I am moving on too quick. I really never felt sad after my breakup because ... (77 words)

My Ex cheated and then he left me. Why can't I move on from this set-back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Why can't I move on? I am in college two months ago my ex cheated and left. Now I am so alone in college and it's like I enjoy being sad because today I found myself crying and it seems he's fine. I cry the most when I think about how he so easily could walk away and no... (72 words)

My best friend is a guy. I like to be honest about this to any guy I want to date. Does this scare off guys I want to date?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, thanks for reading. I seem to have an issue with dating because my best friend is a guy. We dated a few years back, decided that we weren't good in a relationship, so we became good friends. He is also married now. My dilemma is that when I date someone and... (141 words)

Will this age difference be a problem in my new relationship with a co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I have just entered a relationship with a Co worker. We have both come out of bad relationships in the past. We both love each other and make each other very happy. We are considering moving in together soon. She has a young daughter who I get on very well with, my son has... (115 words)

He loves porn more than he loves me. Is it normal to be so upset about this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

30 March 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 3 years, and the whole of our relationship he has never been able to have an orgasm during intercourse. He says it was the same with his previous partners and it's not just me. But he is the only person I have slept with and I ca... (267 words)

The married man I'm seeing has now pulled back. What am I supposed to think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I met a man, he's married. We've been seeing each other but only slept together that first night... It's been 5 weeks of texting and short visits. We have very strong feelings for each other. He said he doesn't want to drag me into his mess, also said there having tense heated ... (92 words)

Help me to move on after the he violated my trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I split with my partner of 2.5 years. We split last August for 3 months and reconciled in October under the circumstance that we were completely honest about what had happened since we split, had it all out cards on the tables I completely admitted to what I had done ... (551 words)

Do I need to show my boyfriend what I like sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for around a month now, met him three times. We slept together on the second time, it felt so natural and things seem to be progressing from there quite steadily. We get on extremely well, feel at ease with each other etc. Only concern is I am not ... (287 words)

My ex wants to take our baby away for his visits and I'm not comfortable with this. Do I have a say in the matter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, My ex and I split up while I was pregnant and now he sees our son (9 weeks old) for about 2 hours a week at my house. He has never done a night feed alone and has never looked after him without supervision. He is saying he wants to take me to court and get access to hi... (216 words)

I feel like I'm dating a little boy instead of a man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating my boyfriend for three years now and for the most part everything is great. However, he is 24 without a car(he longboards) and has not found his career path yet. Last year he was planning on going into the military but he could not lose the weight and this... (341 words)

He hasn't text me in nearly a week? Has he lost interest? What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. Well, I have been talking to this guy for about a month now. We have been on two days in the past, both ending really well, both ending in kisses. He said we will definitely have to go on a date again when he comes back (he is currently studying in a different country - ... (304 words)

Boyfriend said something flirty in a text to someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3554 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my boyfriend 3 months now. We had a staff party at work on Friday and there are a couple of girls who I get in with really well. One of these girls is married and likes my boyfriend work colleague. We have kept our relationship quiet as it's very early and new. ... (376 words)

I told my tutor that I had a crush on him and now he's acting very coldly to me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my tutor I had a crush on him and that it was affecting my work, I knew he would reject me, we laughed and agreed to carry on as normal etc However he has been really cold towards me since, he won't look at me or even barely talk to me! I miss talking to him and it hu... (120 words)

I chose not to stay with my boyfriend's family while in his country and now no one is speaking to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - CAN SOMEONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT ID DID WRONG??? My boyfriend"s cousin lives in one of the Europian countries. The family is very close to absurdity. Even if someone is wrong they are still right. i am planning a vacation where my boyfriend can't go. I travel 3 times a year, i... (587 words)

Is 47 too old to start a family?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3547 days ago

29 March 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - Im 47 yo male. Just wondering what opinions are on starting a family when you are older? Id like a male and female opinion. Cheers.... (37 words)

We've been dating 4 months and I have taken him back after finding he'd been chatting with other girls and his ex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm looking for advice no a current situation with my boyfriend. We're both 23 We've been dating for 4 months now. The start of the second month I realized he lied to me about a nude photo of his friend but cast forward I got over that as she sent it before we got together... (768 words)

If you like a woman but want her to slow down what can you do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

29 March 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, Help needed! I met this woman who I've known for years and always liked. We got together recently and I really like her but she was coming on a bit intense. I backed off but she was still intense, texting a lot. I def' like her but want to go at a slow pace so in the ... (227 words)

Why can't he face that his family is lying about me and tell them to butt out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner and I of 6 years broke up three months ago, we have been trying to sort it out but I have asked him to tell hi family to butt out of our relationship, or I am not coming back. HE used to work in the family business and moved from Ireland to the UK when they treated ... (500 words)

Would you move thousands of miles for someone you loved but have to give up your goals or dreams?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3552 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I met someone I am really into and we have been carrying on a long distance relationship for a few years! we met online. He lives on the other side of the country. I liked him since we first chatted though and we have talked everyday since then. I really can't imagine not ... (197 words)

My husband has been nasty to me since the birth of our second son! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3555 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can anyone give me some advice, i have been with my partner 5 years we have a 2 year old boy and a baby boy of 5 weeks. my partner since the birth of our second son is being nasty to me talks awful to me and shows me no affection at all he sleeps downstairs as well he is ... (135 words)

If he's engaged surely he should just admit it to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've had my suspicions when my partner has been away, I caught him texting someone Xmas day, he then replies in person i don't know anyone with that name, when he went I done some fb searching found friends in common with people he lived with, anyway it said she was in a ... (201 words)

Is he stringing me along or is he serious about having a relationship with me? I miss him so much.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3553 days ago

29 March 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I really need advise, I can't stop thinking about this guy. I've known him and have been out with him and apparently he says we are still together. He lives elsewhere now since leaving for a job. and we havent really seen each other. We speak or text every couple of... (217 words)