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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do do I teach him what I want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my long distance boyfriend because he wasnt treating me the way I wanted to be treated. It was his first relationship, and he didnt understand how to give me emotional comfort. I was really frustrated, and told him so. He was heartbroken and ... (125 words)

I finally told a deep, dark secret....and now I feel empty and hollow! Why? And what do I do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - For about 10 years, I carried a secret in my family, since I was 15 years old. It was very heavy for me, but I thought from some maybe obedience that I can’t say it, as I was told that I just can’t say it. Then I broke the silence after 10 years and said it. And now I don’t kn... (123 words)

I met a great guy and we had fun hanging out, but he seemed turned off when I told him I'm 17! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - How to get this guy to notice/like me or ask me out? I’m going to have to explain this whole situation so you can kind of get into my shoes a bit and give me some advice. I was out at a gig in my college with my friend the other night and we were both quite drunk. Well...ev... (694 words)

He cheated and I haven't responded to him for 7 months. I will be moving back to his country, should I make peace with him?

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28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I have a complicated story. In 2009 I stayed in Australia for in total 4 months for an internship. I met this guy through a friend of mine, we hit it off instantly, and it was supposed to be something casual. We spent time together for about 2 weeks before I left to ... (608 words)

Need help with my attraction for older men

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I possibly need help, but I don't really know how to go about it. I'm only fifteen- going on sixteen, soon, and I've got this real strange attraction to older men Anything up from twenty, but never older than forty? It's sorta weird... it IS weird, but it's just someth... (226 words)

Do I listen to my sister and leave, or was the break a mistake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - O.k.... I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2, nearly 3 years now and although things have not been perfect, overall we've been quite happy and I've had some of the best times with him, but my sister has told me throughout our relationship she really doesn't think we ... (517 words)

She always wants her space!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I guess I'm the type of person who needs to feel constantly loved. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years now and it is just like that fire is gone. I found out she had feelings for another guy and she doesn't really try to hold my hand or kiss me or what not and I ... (159 words)

My girlfriend has feelings for 2 of my friends! We all work together,so it's awkward. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it goes, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years (I’m 21, she’s 20). The beginning was great, we loved each other and we were having fun and what not, this was until I found out she had feelings for two of my friends. So I guess naturally I don't want her ... (258 words)

You're a lesbian, so leave my boyfriend alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Essay time- get comfy! I'm a little confused about my best friend and what exactly it is she is up to... See, we have been best friends for 9 years, she's like my right arm and we do everything together pretty much (even work together) I always thought she might be bi beca... (242 words)

I fancy my boyfriends best mate!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I used to be in love with him, now not so much, I have fallen for his best mate ! But he has a girlfriend , they only got together a few days ago , things seem to be going great for them , but not for me and my boyfriend . He has a really nice family and ... (81 words)

How do I achieve my EMO look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is amazing and he is one of my best friends. He always looks amazing and he always says I look amazing too but I don't feel confident in the clothes I wear! I dont like to wear skirts I love shorts and jeans and I love a quirky style and he says I look amazing when ... (95 words)

She's always bringing a friend along!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a very shy girl..we are both 20.i approached her and made obvious i wanted to hang out with her...at first she brought a friend.But then i ignored her so she started texting to me.I asked her out alone and she accepted.Next days she kept making first move via ... (193 words)

My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex! Am I too demanding or am I right to question him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever wants to have sex! I’m talking like... (174 words)

How do I ask this girl to kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, I really wanna kiss this girl who i like and I am pretty sure she likes me but I don't know how to ask her to kiss me. Has anyone got any good ideas?... (36 words)

Am I wrong in being paranoid about my party-loving bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I cant decide if I'm being pathetic or not... so I've been with my bf like 3 years, 2 of them a serious relationship, for the past year or so I've become quite paranoid and controlling, but by that all I mean is that I don't like him getting off his face when he goes to unive... (223 words)

Everyone now sees me as the "bad girl" after a regrettable one-night stand. What do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Okey, this is a story I rather not tell but I really need some help on this one. A week ago I met some boys at a party.. we all became really drunk and later that night we went to one of the boys' houses. A lot happened that night, but to tell the story in a short version,... (233 words)

Is it normal for a guy to take this long to decide whether or not he wants to date someone he once dated before and has been friends with since?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so back in 2009 I dated a guy-- my first boyfriend, from June 26, 2009 until December 16, 2009. He broke up with me because he was "unsure of his true feelings" I was also the last girlfriend he's had since and I was the longest of his three relationships. Ever since though, ... (178 words)

Does losing temper really mean you care?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, To start off we are both male Today I asked a friend of mine to stop playing his music up full volume while he was round mine as I had to concentrate on something. He had his other friends with him and he said no, this doesn't sound right unless its up loud. I conf... (340 words)

Problems with my step-children; am I in the wrong here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) age - My step kids are 37 -34 one is a female and one is a male The daughter was marred and has a child she is now divorce. And the son was marred and divorce and now re marred and expending there first child ... I have three girls 37-34-30 They all have there own family too ..... (1383 words)

She's the woman of my dreams, but I can't ask her out on Facebook, can I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, this is quite a difficult thing to explain, but I'll try. - I have been single for a good while now. I'm currently 20, and haven't had a girlfriend in about 18 months. This never really bothered me too much and I was pretty happy, up until this past September when t... (395 words)

Boyfriend travelling overseas for first time - hasn't contacted me yet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, My boyfriend has just taken his first overseas holiday with one of his mates. He's had a very rough couple of years and I'm excited that he's getting the chance to travel as I've done much of it myself and it's my passion. However, in the 2 weeks that h... (399 words)

We broke up over his emotional affair but I'm having a change of heart

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't get over my finace. I found out he was having emotional affair on Facebookand instead of talking he called our engavement off and wouldn't admit to this. ( I gave him space to think and told him if we were no longer together (2.5 years) then I will be taking my truck ... (153 words)

Thinking about the future -- would it be safe for third-cousins to have children together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old, and I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we love each other very much. But recently we found out we are third cousins and we are both thinking about the future. Is it safe for us to have children together? ... (47 words)

Two guys with different things to offer, don't know which to choose

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue I cannot figure out what to do. I dated this guy for two years and he was the first boy i have ever loved. We kept fighting and we were going to college soon so we broke up because we though it would be best. we broke up four months ago and we both are still in ... (298 words)

Discovered that my husband was cheating. Do I stay or go?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, looking for some advice, i have been with my husband for 9 years, married for 4, we have a 2 year old son together and i have 2 children from a previous marriage. I recently found out via a man coming to my door that my husband had been having an affair for 3 mon... (1264 words)

Should I take a break from this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes lately it seems like I am always on this site lol! Anyways, the past month or so things have not been so good with me and my bf. We started seeing each other about 8 months ago, and were always exclusive from day 1. We never felt the need to look for others that is how much... (784 words)

I don't understand him! Do you? Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - He calls often, just always wants to know how I'm doing and that he finds me attractive and at times tutors me with my science classes, so he's quite bright (unless he's quick on Googling information). It's all really sweet. However, when I ask him things I get: "Fine", ... (175 words)

Why am I not married yet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4924 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - While I wait and hoping to marry someday, as to I'm in my mid 30's, seems have decline. Next thing I knew, everyone asked, why am I not married?? I want to tell them, I'm ugly, miserable bitch that nobody want. All I could said, I don't have the answer. I spent 7 long yea... (187 words)

I texted "love you" and I haven't heard back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so here is the deal. It's senior year and I found this guy within an old group of friends. He goes to my old high school and somehow we found out that we are absolutley perfect for each other. We have such a great time together whether we are in a group or just us two. ... (388 words)

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have sex and when we do he has a ... (245 words)

She's happy I'm heartbroken, is this just a rumour or true?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently one of my good friends told me that a girl who is currently in a relationship with someone else is happy that I am heartbroken because of her. She is a very close and good friend of mine. In the past, she helped me out a lot in a lot of problems and we both like eac... (218 words)

He wants to keep our relationship secret.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this boy but his mates don't like me, he said that if we do go out then we would have to keep it secret. I'm okay with doing this. What Should i do ? Help !!! ... (41 words)

My partner doesn't pay bills, or clean up messes, and she's taken money from my account without permission. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 36 years old and I have a wonderful two year old daughter. I own my home, and my daughter’s mom lives with me. This is where the problem comes in. She is going to school full time and out of the three years we have been living together she hasn’t contributed any money to... (224 words)

Why I am attracted to women with low self-esteem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Why am I attracted to these needy messed up low self-esteem women? It's like if she is in trouble or is in bad emotional place or drug addict or w/e . I find these women very attractive.. Its like their emotions are so pure I can't explain it.I have a need to comfort them. I ... (250 words)

When I asked my boyfriend to set up some healthy boundaries with his children, he broke up with me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age - I have been in relationship for 5 years. It was great for 3 years until his children ages 16 and 20 started to cross boundaries when he and I were together. I asked him on several occasions to set up some healthy boundaries to not have them wake us up or interrupt. He has a ... (302 words)

Why doesn't my friend want to talk about the past? And which boy does my heart belong to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Need your help again. So, last year, there used to be a lad (Luke) who was totally in love with me. He spoke to me everyday and always said he loved me. He did this everyday for a year but I never responded because I didn't want to ruin our friendship, as we were best fri... (331 words)

I can't keep up this secret much longer!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Going to keep this as short as possible.. I am a girl that's16 years old and am in a relationship with a 20 year old male. As I am living with my parents, and knew they would be against this we've been in a secret relationship for 10 months. When we had been together for arou... (187 words)

She made her choice, but now I'm hurting..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this girl a while ago, we swiftly hit it off and became friends. Knowing this girl was in a relationship, I didn't push for anything more. After a while we became best friends simply spending each evening talking, it had been a while since I had been in a good ... (466 words)

Do men actually like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissing, licking and being down there... (68 words)

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life quick that one needs to be successf... (452 words)

Is it normal to not want to date people older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - hey there, I was just wondering if i'm meant to be attracted to people older than me. I mean i'm gay and I like people my own age, but not older, and I was wondering if thats normal. Cause some of my mates have older gf and bf. So any help would be good, or your own experie... (68 words)

He's 38, and I'm 21. Someday I would like to have kids, but he doesn't think he wants them. Should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 21 years old and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for over a year...we live together and get on sooooo well. He never upsets me, treats me like a princess and I love him to bits. The problem is, I would like to have children in the future, not now, but one day. He ... (135 words)

I'm almost 17, and STILL being treated like a little kid!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Thank you for all you people who are taking your time to help me, I really do need answers. I'm 17 in a couple of days and tbh I'm quite confused. I've been with my boyfriend for ages (8 months) but he's still not allowed in my bedroom. Even if he's nipping up to ge... (225 words)

I'm fed up of feeling sorry for myself, but cant seem to forget about him! Help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 41-50 - This isn't a question. I am just going through a difficult patch and was wondering if anyone had any advice. I fell in love with a guy towards the end of last year (October/November time). He made it very clear that he didn't want anything serious. I backed off compl... (339 words)

We were all set to meet up and then he goes on a date with another girl, and now only wants to be friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I have joined a dating site, i got talking to a guy on it and we really seemed to have a lot in common, we swapped numbers and were texting the whole time. he lives an hour away and doesnt have a car so we were dying to meet eachother but we have to wait a few weeks. ... (528 words)

Ex ignores me after initially crying to be friends

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 30-35 - Ex broke up with me a month ago...went into no contact right after. She cried about being friends and I said no since I still had feelings. We dated for 5 years and were each others first...in everything. i knew I was going to see her at the college meeting…and I di... (444 words)

Will having a child make things worse in the long run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 36-40 - im 25 and pregnant. Its been a bit of a rollar cosater but i have got over the hurdles of telling my parents etc and i thought i was on the roasd to happiness. But now me and my boyfriend are arguing. I have gone off sex and been feeling a bit anxious and moody, i have tried ... (360 words)

Am I addicted to smoking after two puffs on a cigarette?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, On saturday, i went to a party with all my mates, there was one girl who was smoking and made me take a puff, i ended up taking two puffs. All today i have been craving a fag and i was going to steal one from my sister. Am i addicted now? and how do i stop feeling li... (83 words)

She rejected me but I am sure there were some signals from her! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

28 February 2011 (M)

age 41-50 - Help! I met this girl... I was at a Karoke bar, she was with her 3 friends, and when I got up to sing, I asked for her name. When I sat back down, she called me over and we got chatting. She asked me to come along with her and her friends. I did. Towards the end of the ni... (513 words)

Hurt and confused, was it all my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) age 36-40 - Today makes a week since I last spoke with my ex and I am really taking everything hard. I feel like I'm the only one hurting, like I'm the only one who cares as he is just moving on with his life happily. Long story short, we met through mutual friend and instantly connected. ... (450 words)