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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too much sex, I'm tired & my fiance doesn't understand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my fiancé had sex three times a day for 6 months straight (with no breaks)!! Eventually she wore me out and I needed a little break from it. A week later I haven’t even touched her in that time. When we going to bed my fiancé went bathroom brush her teeth. She came back ... (125 words)

Friends afraid I'll put boyfriend before them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 15 and i've been dating my boyfriend 4 3 months now and he took my virginity about 4 days ago now that is not my problem my problem is now my friends think i am going to change and they say im not going 2 b around them as much they think that i will put my boyfriend ... (106 words)

Is it love actually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - First i would like to say i have been looking at this site and i only chose it because the answers people give are always polite, not like some other sites where people are rude anyway. MY question is, i went on a date with my boyfriend yesterday and he kept kissing my foreh... (81 words)

Why will women not date me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age - why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks... (24 words)

How should I react if I run into my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! My ex had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship. He asked to still be friends but he only wanted a friends with benefits deal, which made me angry. So after that, whenever he called or texted me, I didnt reply.I have given him so many chances in ... (131 words)

Always horny but then feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks.... (46 words)

How to resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i just posted the other one, look, anyway, i just told her about it, god i wanna kill myslef, i don't deserve to live. she says she won't break up with me and that i gave her a chance when she hurt me and she said she won't tell her parents. god i hope she doesn't, i don't ... (118 words)

How to get my husband to loosen up and enjoy sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I will soon be getting married to a Ugandan man, and our relationship is wonderful. I sometimes worry that he will be very withheld during sex and will be very conservative. He was raised in Uganda, basically as one of those kids you'd hear about in a "Save the Children" in... (229 words)

My fiance wants a civil partnership and I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and my fiance's 26. We've been engaged for a year now, and everything in our life is pretty much good - we're well-liked, in good jobs and earning a decent amount to live on. We've had arguments like any couple have, and they've resolved themselves usually but... ... (220 words)

My sister is dating my Wife's Ex and its killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - WIFE's EX (EXCELLENT) LOVER NOW FUTURE BROTHER IN-in-LAW Sis and I are close; only 2 years apart. Last year, Sis started grad school and met this great guy, she told me. Sis beamed after each date with him, and enthusiastically said he was the absolutely best lover she e... (650 words)

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on me and caught me while i was ... (317 words)

I'm being patient but he's still hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here is my problem. I hung out with this guy who we both connected on an unbelievable level. I know for absolute fact he is in to me so this is not a question of that. We where so in to each other that even though it was our first time out together we ended up having a ... (266 words)

Resolution Number 1 Equals The End of The Affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, I've gone and done it. I've put an end to my affair. Full stop. Thanks for help Dear Cupids. Your advice and guidance have given me strength to resolve my feelings (or, at least, make a start). Resolve not revolve. Finished going round in circles. The new question: W... (458 words)

How can I give him a wake up call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i love m bf we r plannig to get a house together but i see problems we dont get to spend alot of time together i no that he needs to work n he has 2 kids every other day for a couple of hours but now he does basketball after work n talking about going gym n playing rugby again ... (229 words)

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get over a guy......that i've bee... (70 words)

Why did he do this terrible things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me list what what my ex did to me 2 months after the break up (he convinced me to start talking to him again after a personal tragedy. For the next two months (4 months after the break up): Txted about how something reminded him of me Txted pictures of him and I fr... (525 words)

I feel used and ignored because he never bothers to call or text...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend that I've known for 7 months. We work together and we play together. He and i (or so i thought) became real close. We practically go out 4-5 times a week. I even met his mom and she loved me. He is going through a painful divorce (no kids) and i know his life ... (280 words)

Am I wasting my time asking this guy over or should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello to everyone and happy new year!! Ok aunts yes it's me again. Heres the situation. The guy that I had talked about before is driving me crazy.Last week he called me quite a few times 4 times christmas eve and yesterday he called 3 we talked about 4 hours total ... (617 words)

Problems with intimacy... has anyone else dealt with this and what did they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All! Well i'm just looking for advice, but please don't suggest that I end it as that is not an option that I want. Well I have been with my boyfried for just over a year and it hasnt always been plain sailing, when we first met he had just left his wife b... (277 words)

Happy New Year to all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age - Happy New Year to all those who post on here, aunts or otherwise. May this year bring us all love, luck and happiness, and if not then enough alcohol so we don't care :)))))). Love and blessings to you all, Deema.... (43 words)

What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls. ... (41 words)

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep that way .?... (67 words)

Why do nice girls fancy jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do nice girls fancy jerks? why do jerks types guys keeping getting girlfreinds.girls never see thsese guys as freind material,thses guys can have girl as girlfreind whenever they choose girls never say no when asking them out either.then they boost about then for a few m... (202 words)

Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just wondering if he would like it ... (71 words)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5833 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought what the hell is she doin... (114 words)

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and what about me and she says"I ... (108 words)

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, things were a little awkward ... (1222 words)

My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he realized he liked girls. ... (386 words)

Candy cane fun and worries.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now as I think of it I really ... (109 words)

How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly a ... (962 words)

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5810 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going out for about a month - ... (451 words)

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years (whom is a guy) with all my tears ... (244 words)

My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find it hard to give the other ... (695 words)

Are these red flags in our relationship? Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 26 y.o male in a relationship with a 27y.o girl, who I've known since I was 17. We went out for 3 years then met up again 11 months ago (the split was due to me traveling abroad). I was delighted when we ran into each other again and found the passion was still th... (294 words)

Teacher gives me longing glances...does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Guys. I just want to say thanks to all of those who answered my previous questions. Some of your answers were harsh and even a little bitchy, but i get why you were trying to show me the real life of my situation. I havent done anything crazy or desperate to try to seduce ... (184 words)

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while I was on myspace a boy added m... (238 words)

She tell me I'm not in her life plan but I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - what do i do when the person i love tells me i am not in her life plan. we have not been together for over a year, however, we remain in contact and i saw her very recently. i asked if she still loved me she said in a different way and not in love with me, but i saw in her eyes ... (207 words)

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5249 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick gets covered in it and things te... (144 words)

Why do the bad guys always win?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5334 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies get every thing right and victim... (500 words)

He wants to see if he misses me will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 years decided he needed time apart. He wasn't treating me that well lately an was turning small meaningless arguments into big scandals. We have had problems in our relationship, which is normal for every couple, but I was always the one who acted more calmly, ... (336 words)

I've never had a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is 30 years of age, I feel old because i never had any thing.i,ll never get married i never had boyfriend no body would bother with me. I'm really discouraged about all of this!... (34 words)

WHAT am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I'm sick. I like guys, as in I will check out cute, good looking guys and think of how is it like if I have a boyfriend but I get aroused when I see nude girls, or girls making out. Even when I touch my self. And in the past when a guy confessed to me, I will freak out ... (74 words)

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and looking for a job and money ... (165 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me beyond sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my next door neighbour for nearly six months now. He stays at mine most nights, and we sometimes have sex however her never kisses me and he really isn't intimate at all outside of the bedroom. Its almost like he doesn't find me attractive. I can't work out ... (104 words)

He acts different to me when his friends are around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and a bit now and i cant stand to be away from him. As i have been banned from seeing him this makes it all worse. I get to see him only at school and right now its in the holidays and im going through hell. I miss him so ... (112 words)

Everyone tells me I shouldn't be with him...but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having a really bad time at the moment, we have been together for a year and a half, this has been a rocky relationship from the begining but is getting worse. He is having problems with his ex over his daughter and she has stopped him seeing her, this ... (332 words)

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his hand and squeezed very hard. ... (146 words)

Do I be brave and make the first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I know this sounds weird but I'm shy and need help with this. I like this guy at work and I never told anyone. And I was told that he liked me (and I believe them- just through little things at work- he was my secret santa and i saw him going red when he pulled the name... (149 words)

I don't know about oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have been with this guy for a few months and he wants to go a bit further with oral stuff etc. the thing is I have never let a guy go down on me before and I don't know what to expect and what do you do once he has finished.... (53 words)

How long should I leave it before telling my ex I have someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5834 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know peoples opinion, especially males on what is a good amount of time to make it known that you are dating someone new, if you broke up with someone and remain friends with them. I don't want to hurt this person, but I want to move on. So what ever your ... (126 words)