teen age sec

i recently caught my 15 year old daughter fellating her boyfriend. okay or too young? healt concerns? tell dad?

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 3:1 (London time) - permalink
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first of all wow! i started at 15 and im okay. healt-ask a dr. dont think dad wants 2 no his girl is giving head.

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 7:13 (London time) - permalink
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sanal

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 12:28 (London time) - permalink
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"if he saw her at work and didnt know it was his little girl he'd be very proud of her work"

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 15:36 (London time) - permalink
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yeah i guess it didnt come out right

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 18:59 (London time) - permalink
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It's a bit previous to be that sexually advanced before the age of consent. Perhaps Dad could speak to her about things like feelings and maturing of love before his daughter indulges in sexual practices.

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 19:20 (London time) - permalink
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thank you for the reply. it makes sense.

Posted on 15 August 2006 @ 19:28 (London time) - permalink
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my husband and i have talked to staci about the situation and are very upset as she does not see anything wrong since there is no intercourse. please advise/comment.

Posted on 19 August 2006 @ 7:19 (London time) - permalink
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Well, here's a question for you then - why do you and your husband think it's wrong?

Posted on 19 August 2006 @ 8:48 (London time) - permalink
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i was doing that at 15 i hink its normal its just that teens like to hide stuff like that from their parents coz there's no need for you to know about it. aslong as she knows about safe sex and she can trust the boy she's with she's fine. and dont tell her dad that would just embaress her and her dad and maybe make her more secretive in future.

Posted on 23 August 2006 @ 12:45 (London time) - permalink
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Your excellent grammer and spelling indicates you should have paid more attention to your lessons at 15 than acts of immorality. The fact you continue to condone it shows you presently either choose not to learn, or are incapable of it. Parents should know if an underage girl is indulging in a sex act.

Posted on 23 August 2006 @ 13:13 (London time) - permalink
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Sex is sex, whether penetrative or not, and at the age of 15 it is not only illegal to be doing this, but immoral and disrespectful to be doing it under your roof, especially without your knowing. If I had a daughter of 15 I would be providing her with more guidance on respecting herself and conducting herself with dignity.

Posted on 23 August 2006 @ 13:49 (London time) - permalink
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We agree that it is sex whether she (our daughter) is penetrated or not however as you say we our role models, and we agree with you, it doesn't change the fact that just weeks ago and on more than one occasion, she has seen me swallow daddy's love juice. She thinks it is great that I still, as she says it, "give head", to her father as enthusiastically as I do. She states this as each time she has seen us I am very into it.

Posted on 2 September 2006 @ 7:0 (London time) - permalink
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I am just wonering why you have a problem,if you let your 15 yr old daughter watch you.What do you expect?

Posted on 2 September 2006 @ 7:57 (London time) - permalink
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wonering should be wondering

Posted on 2 September 2006 @ 7:59 (London time) - permalink
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Ariel,

Posted on 2 September 2006 @ 8:11 (London time) - permalink
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Well then I would take Snowbirds advice.

Posted on 2 September 2006 @ 8:18 (London time) - permalink
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ariel

Posted on 3 September 2006 @ 1:39 (London time) - permalink
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Ic

Posted on 3 September 2006 @ 7:17 (London time) - permalink
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Why not explain to your daughter that you are in fact with her dad, are in a committed loving relationship and as adults thats what you do when your in a loving caring relationship and that it isnt something that should be taken so lightly so early on... Just because you are and her dad engage in this doest mean its appropriate for her to be doing this.... she has to understand that you guys have been in a loving relationship for some time, she will have only been with a partner a short time, and that she has to understand that you dont just give yourself up on a whim. There is a whole lot of difference the fact that you two do it, to her doing it... explain that morals do still count and that you and her dad are comitted enough to be doing such thigns, and she shouldnt be doing this freely and if shes happy with one guy and keeps it at that great, but let her know that it wouldnt really be appropriate to go around doing it willy nilly excuse the wording!! Make her aware that its all about respect and caring for somebody not just sex, just because she sees you doing it does mean she has to go along and do it... if you want her to be able to express herself freely make sure she is aware of all the pitfalls, ie not every guy is going to be as committed to her as you two are to one another. And to let her know that she as to respect herself and you along the way. Let her know that you dont want her to take the wrong route but want her to find out about life along the way, but to understand that you guys have been together a long time. Shes yet to expereince a long term loving relationship and in time she will, just because she sees you doing it doesnt mean she has to go along and do it.

Posted on 3 September 2006 @ 12:39 (London time) - permalink
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Sorry I didn't get back to you sooner. Ithank you for your advice but it is hard to explain to a teen that there is a difference between me fellating her dad and her servicing her men since both her dad and her guys end up finishing the same way.

Posted on 14 October 2006 @ 14:0 (London time) - permalink
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ok :s yh sure u should b glad she isnt doin anythig worse. if my mum saw some of the stuff i did i'd die! but i would die if i saw ma mum sukin ma ex step-dad off. i think id throw up.i cant belive u let her watch or she atuli watched. its all a disgusting for me! but i think its fine that shes giving hed. it perfectly normal i bin doin it since i wo 11 (2 the same lad btw i aint a slag) and if ur worried bout explaining the difference the answer is simple...dont do it infront ov her! bye x x x

Posted on 14 October 2006 @ 18:10 (London time) - permalink
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you cant stop her from doing it so get her on the pill soon !!!!!!! and talk to her abot sex and what all boys want from girls

Posted on 18 May 2007 @ 10:31 (London time) - permalink
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