Making Love

InLove1106, posted over a year ago

My boyfriend and I our intimate, but we don't have sex. I want to make love to him, because I love him and I want to have that bond with him. He wants to wait, which I respect, because its not everything in the world to me, I would wait a lifetime for him. I just dont know why he feels this way if its me or? I dont really bring it up because I dont want him to think that is all I care about because it isn't. I just needed some advice what I should do or think or feel something.

Posted on 24 April 2006 @ 5:47 (London time) - permalink
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been_there, posted over a year ago

u said u love him rite?then u shud b able 2 talk 2 him about anything including sex talk 2 him about how u feel. explain that u just need 2 kno how strongly he feels 4 u- even without having sex. if u2 talk about it u may find out more things such as hes scared? or feelz its rong 2 have sex b4 marriage? n ul realize its not because he doesnt love u- ul feel alot betta n so wil he! good luck!!

Posted on 25 May 2006 @ 15:34 (London time) - permalink
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BillTarr, posted over a year ago

Sex in a relationship is an IMPORTANT issue - doesn't matter if you are a guy or a girl. Though I truly believe that sex for women is even more important than for men.

The one of the thing why your BF is delaying sex is might be because he isn't confident about this.

Could you tell me if he has had any previous partners before you?

Posted on 4 September 2008 @ 13:55 (London time) - permalink
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Fedya, posted over a year ago

There is no normal or proper timetable for having sex. Sex is a part of being intimate with someone, but only a part - there are other ways of being intimate, sharing experiences, being close, having fun together. These are all as important. Being ready to have sex with a new partner is a very personal thing. So give him time. Good luck.

Posted on 9 November 2008 @ 1:59 (London time) - permalink
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Fedya, posted over a year ago

Posted on 9 November 2008 @ 2:1 (London time) - permalink
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doniaa, posted over a year ago

well.... i say you should take te lead

and start to feel on him till he get excited then

STOP

let him want an then slowly but surely get yours and his clothes off and ask him to try to let you go farther then when "if you want to stop tell me"

then make him regret for not been lovin u

Posted on 12 December 2008 @ 3:3 (London time) - permalink
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