| 55plus55, posted
over a year ago
Okay, first off, don't stress out.
I should point out though, that for men, 25 tends to be the max. There's a lot of 19-20 year old virgin guys out there believe me, but 25 is like the border.
Fact is, women are different in this regard, because a woman who's only had sex with one guy won't know the difference in good sex/bad sex, and women can get a lot more pleasure out of sex as they have more buttons.
A man's role is to know how to push those buttons, so not to pressure you, but lack of any experience is a negative. This is why " practice girls " are actually useful, and as bad as that sounds, it's true, but it's better to get young practice girls, like 17-20 age range, I'm very responsible on STDs, but that's because when I was younger the idea that a 16 year old girl has herpes wasn't too high, obviously a 28 year old woman might.
What I can suggest is this, buy some condoms and try em on, even if you know the sensation, just do it now since you're with this girl, natural instinct with virgin guys is climaxing to soon, at 24, if you tell her you're not a virgin, she might think you're a puss in the sack.
You should give her some info on your lack of experience though, just not virgin.
Tell her you had a girlfriend you fooled around with in High School, and then a few short flings in College, or just after High School.
Tell her it's been a while.
And if you're still scared, read a sex book to get you in the know.
In the end, you're a virgin and you have to go through the process, but you could be the most knowledgeable virgin there is.
Good luck.
Posted on 8 May 2009 @ 0:8 (London time) - permalink
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