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eyeswideopeneyeswideopen, posted over a year ago

Remember when we aunts/uncles would come to the lounge and have a few laughs? Those sure were the good ole days...

Posted on 7 February 2013 @ 16:58 (London time) - permalink
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So_Very_ConfusedSo_Very_Confused, posted over a year ago

I check... not daily but a couple of times a week...

Posted on 7 February 2013 @ 21:15 (London time) - permalink
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Tisha-1Tisha-1, posted over a year ago

I do remember those days.... I miss them too.

Posted on 8 February 2013 @ 17:28 (London time) - permalink
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AbellaAbella, posted over a year ago

I think it may reflect a generational shift.

Today the OP is more likely to want an answer and want it asap.

I think the Original Posters (OP) in 2013 are more akin to consumers seeking a product (answers) but may not have time to then send a follow up.

Follow ups seem to be the exception.

And the number of times an OP rates the advice given is not high.

Only about 1/8 of all the answers given result in the OP giving a rating for the advice given in response to their particular question.

Perhaps in today's busy world feedback and socializing seems to be less, than in the past.

Or maybe the posters have not explored the site? And so have not found the forum and done things like read the guidelines for posting questions and answers?

I think the answer would be to present the site with a more modern font.

And present a more 2013 look to the site, which has remained unchanged in presentation for so long.

Think of the site timeanddate.com which has undergone several changes over the years. The new site looks so much more inviting and contemporary, than the original site that i recall.

But to pay for a major overhaul to the site i think an annual VOLUNTARY donation(no need to complain that you cannot afford to donate - I am only proposing a VOLUNTARY donation)to help pay for changes to the site is required.

Think of Wikipedia that has a VOLUNTARY annual donation appeal.

The site is wonderful. But some tweaking of the presentation to make it more appealing to a wider audience would be lovely.

Then another issue is that sometimes very harsh comments do discourage the OP. As this article seeks to explain. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/being-a-good-agony-aunt-or-uncle.html

It’s important to keep a sense of humour and some perspective when posting answers. If an Aunt or Uncle has had a bad day, then maybe that is not an evening to tackle answering questions?

I don’t want the site to be sickly sweet but I think some answers may be distressing to read, for some using the site, such that those persons, turned off by very harsh posts, then choose to leave the site and never come back.

Similarly the OP may do that after being rubbished for the question they posted.

Posted on 9 February 2013 @ 11:22 (London time) - permalink
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eyeswideopeneyeswideopen, posted over a year ago

Sigh...hey Tish have you seen Irish around? Remember the laughs we had with her? Great sense of humor, great agony aunt. She used to follow me around the site and clean up my messes. Has a nice backyard, perfect for a BBQ, not in February of course.

Posted on 10 February 2013 @ 1:41 (London time) - permalink
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eyeswideopeneyeswideopen, posted over a year ago

The compilation of the DC Manual was such fun! It was kind of disconcerting how well Irish was in the know about spit roasts however.

Posted on 10 February 2013 @ 1:52 (London time) - permalink
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eyeswideopeneyeswideopen, posted over a year ago

Where the heck are you guys? The ones that made this site? Are we all out of date and gone? Do I need to name names?

Posted on 11 February 2013 @ 1:48 (London time) - permalink
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AbellaAbella, posted over a year ago

hi Eyes

Well the guidelines and manual the original Aunts and Uncles created for this site is something to be very very proud of indeed.

I miss seeing Bernard on the site. I do hope he is OK?

Regards

Abella

Posted on 12 February 2013 @ 16:20 (London time) - permalink
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Tisha-1Tisha-1, posted over a year ago

Hi Abella, I think Eyes is referring to a different manual... the one that contained all the weird and wacky stuff we read here...

And Eyes, I hope some of the oldsters still hang out, I think we were feeling squashed. Let's come back out and hang out, I will if you will.

Posted on 12 February 2013 @ 20:30 (London time) - permalink
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C. GrantC. Grant, posted over a year ago

Dunno if I qualify as an oldster here -- I showed up after the epic (which so informatively discussed 'spit roasts') was written.

Eyes, one of your posts brought this to mind:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1F9vRVyV914

Posted on 14 February 2013 @ 7:52 (London time) - permalink
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eyeswideopeneyeswideopen, posted over a year ago

ha, ha CG, you "meathead" you.....

Posted on 14 February 2013 @ 15:32 (London time) - permalink
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