Small Problem, although big.

So the past few days I have become REALLY deep in love with a female friend, my problems probably occure a lot during a young males life.

Posted on 30 May 2006 @ 9:33 (London time) - permalink
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First of all, you should post this on the main site (deja vu). Second, to answer your question, I believe you should give her some room. This may not work for everyone of course, but I would write her a small light hearted letter, explain the results of her rejection towards me, and tell her that I would still like to stay as friends, but will give her some space to let whatever awkwardness she may have towards me to pass. Then leave it at that. I won't be sure when to get back to her, but I can wait years for friends if I have to - even decades. 8]

Posted on 30 May 2006 @ 20:27 (London time) - permalink
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Thank you for your advice.

Posted on 31 May 2006 @ 9:9 (London time) - permalink
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I would tell her that you are sorry if you have made her feel uncomfortable in anyway. And that you respect and treasure her friendship to much to loose it. And if there is anything you can do to get you guys back on the same track. You would like it if she would be open and honest and tell what would make her feel better about your friendship again. She should be pretty understanding although awkward for awhile. Then just give her a bit of space.

Posted on 31 May 2006 @ 15:40 (London time) - permalink
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