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Angelicc, posted over a year ago

Hey I Just Posted A New Blog On Myspace Page I would Love To Hear Peoples Throughts On It.

http://blog.myspace.com/angelicc

Posted on 15 May 2006 @ 0:35 (London time) - permalink
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hannieseds, posted over a year ago

...we're blinded by the feeling of belief... i love that! Your words are inspirational in their own right and it's very easy to tell you have been hurt by love in your life which down right sucks. I whole heartedly agree with you that love brings all those things, as well as the bad. But that is my version of LOVE. Nothing is perfect, especially love, so I guess the amazingly wonderful also comes with the despiraingly bad. I think the only way you truely know that love has faded, is if the bad times out-weigh the good, even if only slightly. That's when you know you have to stop.

Posted on 15 May 2006 @ 5:31 (London time) - permalink
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Angelicc, posted over a year ago

Thanks so much for your reply. i like what you said about how you know love has truly faded when the bad times out weight the good. i wish i throught that..lol..but that push i need to get me out of my current situation.

i'm still lagging with my ex, i've tried so hard to cut myself off from him completely but my love for him keeps dragging me back. we use to have a great relationship but now its just barely good. He doesn't treat me as good as he use to, he's completely self-centred and i feel like i'm just a doormat.

i need something to kick some sense into me. just yesterday i told i didnt want anything to do with him but now i'm already regretting it and trying my hardest not to contact him to aplogize.

Posted on 15 May 2006 @ 19:54 (London time) - permalink
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hannieseds, posted over a year ago

How long have you two been together for? I soooo know how you feel, well of course not entirely, but maybe a similar situation? I have been with my man for almost 5 years (first 2 years were long distance) but we were mates for about 5 years prior to that. It's like everything is so damn good, life is so much more beautiful when your love life is on track; there is a bounce in your step and a gleam in your eye, but sometimes I think we as simple human beings forget that all good things in life take HARD WORK.

I'm really sorry to hear your man doesn't treat you as good anymore - what kinds of things have changed? I thought the same with my man only a few months ago, i was really down and it's all i could think about - why doesn't he do this anymore, why doesn't he make an effort to do that like he used to? I was extreamly nervous in broaching this subject with him because we all know that males like to think they're doing good and any comment on him not usually makes them defensive. But to my utter surprise, he felt terrible and asked me all the ways in which I wasn't getting the attention from him that I needed. So for the past 2 months his effort levels have gone through the roof!

I don't know much about your situation, but maybe we could chat? You are very welcome to send me a private message and maybe we could bounce ideas off each other?

It is sooo hard to let the one you love go, i've been at that stage a few times but something ALWAYS pulls me back and so far it's been the perfect decision to just RELAX and let things ride and I have stopped over-analysing things.

You are the only one that knows how you SHOULD and WANT to be treated. You can't go through life settling for second best my love, because true living is to take as many chances as possible because every path we're on has blind corners. You never know what's around them until you actually go there.

So my advice to you would be to stop thinking about things for a while. I don't know if you're living with him or not? but if you aren't then just let things be and try and aim for a week of no contact with him. You have no reason whatsoever to apologise, you cannot apologise for your feelings. But the thing i'm thinking of is that even tho he is treating you differently, something is pulling you back so that tells me straight away that you are not quite ready to cut yourself off from him yet....

Posted on 15 May 2006 @ 22:22 (London time) - permalink
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Angelicc, posted over a year ago

Hey,

Not too long, May the 5th would of been 1 year 5 months anniversary but we weren’t together relationship wise. I’ve actually known him for about 2 years though. Our relationship is long distance but we’ve been together physically.

The weirdest thing is that were okay we the long distance thing. Well I am completely okay with it, well I’m not over the moon that I can’t be physical (I’m not just talking about sex) with him but it’s something we have to deal with. We spend as much time together as any other couple, well we use to. Yea it’s been hard work mostly down to me but he use to supportive as I went through a lot. But now it’s switched and what he’s going thru he doesn’t want to share. He use to be so emotion opened to me before, telling me he loved me everyday, sending me poems, telling me his plans for the future. Now I’m like if I get love you out of him. I just miss how we use to be and I know we can’t go back but doesn’t seem like we can move forward. I feel like he won’t let me love him, that the way he talks to me, acts towards that he just wants to drive me to hate him.

I need to get over to him as soon as because if I can’t speak to him soon, I’ll loss him. I’m still his friend and there something wrong with him and I have to help.

If you want to find out more about him and I read my past post.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/all-weve-been-through-togetherwhy-do-i-keep.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-else-is-more-important-to-my-boyfriend.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-wanted-to-go-on-a-break-but.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/depressed-and-unloved-what-hope-do-i-have.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/were-taking-a-break-and-now-i-think.html

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-boyfriend-has-changed-and-its-not-for.html

Cherelle

Posted on 16 May 2006 @ 0:5 (London time) - permalink
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