Relationship help?

, posted over a year ago

I've been dating him for almost 9 months, and he knows I would be willing to do ANYTHING for him. But he wont do the same for me, his unwillingness is making me feel like he doesnt feel the same way as I do and I'm getting quite hurt by it. He knows this but is still unwilling, even if it means a break up...What should I do?

Posted on 18 April 2006 @ 16:49 (London time) - permalink
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Dave99, posted over a year ago

See my post "My problem - Hall sex"

At least, you do not have financial considerations or children (whose welfare is of paramount importance) in your problem.

It sounds - and this may be incorrect - that he is unwilling to make a commitment.

Also he is quite happy for someone to continue to be willing to do ANYTHING for him without having to make any commitment or effort on his part.

One thing is certain though and that is if you 'push' him to make a decision about the future between you it is more than likely to be the decision you do not want to hear.

Even if he did start 'doing' stuff for you (to please you or for whatever reason) what is the long term future for your relationship likely to be?

Posted on 20 April 2006 @ 22:47 (London time) - permalink
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