he is too busy for me.

I feel very lonley in my relashionship. its been five years since we met. At first it was great to have "space" now that same space feels like an empty hole. I wanna have more time together. He says im negative and im not happy with what I have.

Posted on 11 February 2008 @ 23:19 (London time) - permalink
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Perhaps, you need to change your ways of how you look and think about life in general. Men like Happy - Independent women. There needs to be a balance/space between with friends and relationships. You need to communicate. Have a one on one talk with him and let him know how you feel. Be honest with him. Maybe, the both of you would be able to work things out. If not, then maybe you two are better off having some time apart to really miss each other; and have that space/time for yourselves to see if you two are really meant to be together.

Posted on 12 February 2008 @ 8:39 (London time) - permalink
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You can be with someone and still very lonely and sad. I know i have been there in the past. Do you know when i was at my happiest? The five years i spend alone with just my young son. Honestly, i have a fabulous husband now but i still get times of feeling lonely. I talk to him and tell him how i feel but the feeling just never goes away. I am with you there. I was strong and independent and i think that is the person i really am, fending for myself and kept busy and on my toes. I love him to pieces and wouldnt want to go back, but that is how it is for me. Talk to your bloke and let him know how you feel. take care

Posted on 12 February 2008 @ 18:52 (London time) - permalink
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my boyfriend is constantly busy with sports, school, friends, you name it! theres always something. i understand that these are things he has to do and i accept that. i have things to do too but we always have time for eachother. if your man is constantly busy and you feel lonely i would talk to him and tell him how you feel when he's never around. its important to feel loved and wanted in a relationship... if you dont then whats the point of being in a relationship that makes you unhappy. if talking to him doesnt work maybe decide if you really want to be with someone like that, maybe you need someone who is more dependent on you. a boyfriend should always make you feel loved and special and want to spend a decent amount of time with you.

Posted on 28 May 2008 @ 1:10 (London time) - permalink
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These are questions for the main screen not the lounge.

Posted on 28 May 2008 @ 8:24 (London time) - permalink
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