mojane24, posted
over a year ago
new to this site & I need help! Been w/ my man alittle over 10 yrs & engaged for alittle over 4 yrs. I recently had a HUGE fight over sex and he left our house we recently purchased last Dec at 4am! I haven't seen nor heard from him since (that's 2 days)!
See we agreed purchasing our home 1st then work ont he wedding, which are working on that now. Since 4 yrs ago, I gained maybe 70 lbs & he recently told me that he isn't sexually attracted to me from the weight. That hurt! But now I'm back at the gym & started to loose some weight. I wanted sex sunday & he didn't (we said some words)& he ran away! Mind u that he as done this before (leaving but for a day) telling me that he will have his stuff pack,e tc. Now since we just bought this house 9 months ago & I know he loves our new home, I'm told that he probably wouldn't leave, just to blow off steam.. We hardly talk to each other as he works the 3rd shift & I work during the day. We met when I had worked the 3rd shift w/ him and the past 7 or 8 years. We have very little time to speak with each other & now things that bother us bottle up inside & then we blow up at each other. He is now giving me the silent treament & have no idea where he is? Any suggestions. PLS HELP!!
Posted on 19 September 2007 @ 15:59 (London time) - permalink
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