| staryeyes12, posted
over a year ago
Ive been dating my b/f for over a month now and we've been having some issues. I see him maybe once a week, he doesnt call to cancel plans (he just doesnt show up and leaves me worried), and a lot of times he would rather play video games till 4 in the morning then spend time together. I know it sounds pretty bad but there are a few reasons i havent broken up with him. For one, he does work full time. Also, he has a lot of depression problems. He is medicated and has everything under control but sometimes it seems like his add and other conditions could be the reason he forgets and is sometimes absent minded. Also, he needs a lot more sleep then the average person but sometimes i feel as though he uses that as an excuse 4 not seeing each other. But i cant judge because i dont know what its like to have so many probs and instead im left to ponder whether his excuses are legit or just a way to weasle out of things. Hes basically been having trouble balancing work, his friends, me, and his alone time. When I do confront him however, he uses his conditions as an excuse for being neglectful.. i dont know whether or not to support him and hope things get better... or break up with him... talking to him about it as of yet has not brought a feasible solution... help!
Posted on 22 July 2007 @ 9:0 (London time) - permalink
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