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Lack of Sex & Affection

madmeli, posted over a year ago

Hi Guys, I'm madmeli and have just joined and would luv to know if anyone can help.

In short, 3 years ago I was made medically retired at 37, live with my fiance who is same so both at home 24/7, he's an alcoholic but is semi-trying to beat it @ this week. We now seem to be just brother & sister - I have rape issues from past & don't really know what I like (+ I hate my body at min) & he has lack of sexual confidence which has gotten worse over last year or so, as we've had so many family probs + his drinking and words have been said in hurt. Sex is maybe once a month/2mnths but I need to change that & feel in view of all that is going on that I have to be the one to instigate it. We just read all day at the mo so no quality time even, unless friends come over then we both make the effort & have our 'quality time' then. I'm sooo physically tired but know I must make the effort as got drunk last wk & told him it was no suprise his ex ran off with b.m8 as ,,,, in bed etc!!!! Sorry so long, cheers xx

Posted on 29 March 2007 @ 15:23 (London time) - permalink
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WendygWendyg, posted over a year ago

If you post this in the main Screen of Dear Cupid, under ask a question, you will get far more replies as more people will see it.

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Posted on 29 March 2007 @ 16:37 (London time) - permalink
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