Confused/Frustrated!

Benny1077, posted over a year ago

I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 months now and I am very happy. In the past all of my relationships lasted at least 3 years, but the girls all seemed to be quite immature. I think I have finally found an "adult". My issue is that this woman does not seem to mention anything beyond a month in the future. I am at the age where I wouldn't have gotten into a relationship unless I could see it lasting a long time. Is she just killling time or being realistic?

Posted on 1 November 2006 @ 14:13 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

The only way you're going to have any answers to this question is by talking to her. You said yourself; you have found an "adult" - so why not have an adult conversation and talk to her about your expectations, hopes and dreams for the future - and then let her do the same. If you are in a relationship for the long run, it seems pretty crazy that you haven't even talked about anything that is beyond a month in to the future.

I'm sure you have already realised that the key to a successful relationship is communication - so go communicate with her; find out what she wants from your relationship.

Good luck.

Posted on 1 November 2006 @ 15:1 (London time) - permalink
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