Lack of spark

I have been seeing a wonderfully kind, sweet, generous, honest, guy for past 3 months. I enjoy his company, and he simply worships me and the ground i walk on......but....i dont feel any sexual attraction. He is perfect in everyway - but - i dont have the physical attraction that you inevitably need to have a real relationship and a future together. i've tried and tried and just cant switch it on. so today, i have told him how i feel and that i believe we should just be friends. he obviously is heartbroken but said he'd never force me to be in a situation i'm not comfortable in. why do i feel so bad for doing what i think is the right thing for him.

Posted on 9 October 2006 @ 10:45 (London time) - permalink
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I was in the same same situation with my ex a few years ago, she was completely in love with me and I felt so guilty. I did tell her and we worked things through. Eventually, my feelings did come back until we eventually grew apart again. Now I am with somebody else and am happier than I have ever been.

Posted on 9 October 2006 @ 11:49 (London time) - permalink
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