| Tinkerbell73, posted
over a year ago
Pregnant and partner has changed, would love an opinion please?
I am 32 weeks pregnant in a high risk pregnancy. I cant live with my partner as he works away from where I live and originally he had promised to come to where I live, but says he cant cope with the travelling 60 miles there and the same back.This was hard to deal with as I felt like he had given me false hopes. We got engaged in February 2006 he asked my Dad and everything, one month later I found out I was pregnant which was unplanned. He has changed so much and it is hurting me so much. I have dealt with this pregnancy on my own. I have numerous hospital appointments, after my last pregnancy put me in a coma for 6 days and been suffering with anxiety. Some weeks I am lucky to see him one or two nights a week and finding it hard. He expects me to move to where he lives, but I have a 6 year old from a previous relationship who I dont want to take out of school and I need the support of my family because of my health issues. The original plan was he came to my area before baby was born and then next Easter we move somewhere in the middle. He says he loves me, but I dont know anymore. He told me whilst we are still living apart the baby is my "problem" and he always used to rush to see me but doesnt anymore. Final straw came this week when he sais he dont want to have sex, cos of the baby but I feel its more personal. I am making myself ill, thinking he is seeing someone else and the worse part is I just cant talk to him about how I feel without him being defensive. I cant stop crying. He has changed so much and I think that is what is hurting me the most. I just dont know what to do. My parents are dissapointed in him, I just think the whole commitment thing is scaring him and now I am pregnant we are not "convenient" anymore :( any advice would be welcomed, thanks
Posted on 15 September 2006 @ 10:8 (London time) - permalink
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