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I snooped through her texts and found out she's cheating on me

no coast, posted over a year ago

Backstory - My girlfriend in the beginning of our relationship informed me she has cheated on every boyfriend before me (unsettling), including her last boyfriend who was cheating on her. She's still friends w/ this guy and he's a snake in the grass, every time we get into a fight she calls him. She pulled a fast one last weekend and left me a note saying she was gonna head to a town 30 miles South w/ her friend Cat. She came home the next day and low and behold the "guy" was there too. Not much more I swear. Last night she left her phone on her text screen and my stupid curiosity got the better of me, I looked. Her message to him said something to the effect, "I'm so wet thinking about you, I love you blah blah". His response was similar, "I miss you face etc." I'm at a loss, we've been together 2 years and have had no real problems. I have no hard proof they've done anything YET. Am I jumping ahead? Should I confront her? Should I kick his ass? Anyone w/ insight please help. As sad as it sounds, I still want her even if she has cheated on me.

Posted on 13 January 2010 @ 18:44 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

No Coast -

I can't tell you how many people's relationships have been ruined by snooping. It's a natural thing to do, but also something that can be taken out of context.

Think right now, if your girlfriend had seen all of your texts and read all of your emails over the last 2 years, would anything have led her to a similar conclusion? Would she be right?

Sorry you're hurting, may true love prevail!

Posted on 13 January 2010 @ 19:47 (London time) - permalink
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