Threesome

Black Ash, posted over a year ago

My best friend has been married for about ten years. he and his wife are in their thirties and don't have kids.

He suggested a threesome (another woman) to his wife a few months ago. Initially she was against it but has started to warm to the idea since. My friend is anxious to go ahead with it but at the back of his mind he's afraid it might do long term damage to his marriage. He's asked me for my opinion but I honestly don't know what to think.

Anyone been through this situation? And would it be better if the third party was somebody they didn't know?

Posted on 18 November 2009 @ 21:1 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Black Ash, my suggestion for you is to search the site archives. There is a very large source of information about 'threesomes'. Try going to the DearCupid homepage and key in 'threesomes' into the search box..in the upper right hand side. This site gets tons of questions about threesomes and the advice given, to these questioners is very well thought-out and quite good. Go check it out.

Posted on 18 November 2009 @ 21:33 (London time) - permalink
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Black Ash, posted over a year ago

Thanks, Irish. I've been doing so over the past half hour or so and on a few other sites also. Of what I've read a slight majority seem to think that it's a great idea at the time but that it can often have a negative emotional affect on one or both partners in the long run.

Posted on 18 November 2009 @ 22:5 (London time) - permalink
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texmex556, posted over a year ago

I think you should go for it, have your wife pick the other woman, then ask your wife what are the ground rules, this'll give you the confirmation that your wife's ready and that everything'still a go.... Go get em tiger....

Posted on 23 November 2009 @ 23:15 (London time) - permalink
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DarrylLouiseE, posted over a year ago

I have a similar problem. i have asked my boyfrind if he would be interested but he sed definatly not. . . it is something i am quite keen on. I dont want to press the issue and cause an argumment.

Posted on 6 December 2009 @ 17:49 (London time) - permalink
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bharat mehta, posted over a year ago

Threesome; If we have to check its morality, whether ii is advisable or good as it appear to mind?

The first thing is the root of such inspiration; If the root of idea is 'pornography.', certainly; only pornography can be the root of such ideas, because it display 'threesome' and make its seers to believe that 'threesome' is very exciting sexual play, then couple sex. With this pornographic root, the ideas of 'threesome' can be prove very fatal. It certainly will damage thread of relationship. Husband-wife or simple lover will not trust each other, simply because they have no ideas about the divine aspect of sex. On the contrary, they think sex became pure in their marriage or in their love relations, otherwise, sex is dirty and lusty play. When participants see, that their partner is enjoying sex with other...that will prove very fatal. They cannot believe and accept such situations. Sex with other, means sex without love cannot be pure. This will be the effect of 'threesome' practice.

Pornography is different thing, where player are playing their role for money, and not for sex pleasure. This is some what same thing in ordinary film, where hero and heroin play their love story for money. It is only screen play, and real play. Their real lovers know this. They see the reasoning. It is only acting and not enjoying.

Where as enjoyment of 'threesome' by husband-wife or love couple is enjoying 'threesome' and their enjoyment is real, and not acting. In such case the loser can be lovers, and their love relations.

Posted on 8 December 2009 @ 15:1 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

thats the best answer to a threesome question i've ever seen. Mal

Posted on 8 December 2009 @ 15:54 (London time) - permalink
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plastow, posted over a year ago

its a bad idea but if they do go ahead i think a stranger would be best.so you know its not to easy to fall into the affair trap

Posted on 8 February 2022 @ 10:29 (London time) - permalink
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