Is talking on the phone CHEATING?

The other day I was looking at my cell phone bill.(something I dont look at).I saw a lot of Calls to a number I didnt know. So I as my husband about it. He said it had to do with work. Well something just didn't set right with me. So I started to keep looking at the cell phone bills. Found out that he had been talking to this person for 8 months. So I called the number found it it was a women.I asked him again he just didnt say a word.So I knew I was right.Later on in the day I cofronted him again he tried to make it bout me. I fed up and I kick him out. 1 week went by, He called to tell me that he had gotten hurt at work. So I let him stay in the spare room. Still he wont talk about the situation. After 21 years I feel like fool. I dont know what to do. I dont want to talk to family members.Becase we know how they are. I would like to work it out, But i also want him gone. Please help me out I just dont know what to do. Thank you so much for your help..

Posted on 20 May 2009 @ 2:19 (London time) - permalink
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I guess the question is, Did he actually cheat or was it all talk. Only you can decide if you should forgive him or not. Obviously you care about him. Are you a forgiving person or will you hold it against him forever. If your gonna fight about it for the rest of your life is it worth it. If you love him get help do counciling most people cant deal with this kind of thing on their own. What does he want? Is he sorry and want to make it work. Hope this helps.

Posted on 12 September 2009 @ 7:15 (London time) - permalink
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