| OMG_WOW, posted
over a year ago
First off I'm 23, my girlfriend is 21 and currently in school and is under a lot of stress. She also lives about 4 hours from me. we've been together for 4 months now, but here is my problem.
I am sick and tired of over thinking and analyzing everything in my relationship. I have such an amazing girlfriend who I love with all my heart and will do anything for but I constantly over think and over analyze every situation until its an argument. It so draining on me, like I feel unhappy all the time for no reason at all.
I have been hurt in the past so I assume every little thing she says or does that is not what I expect or want her to say is something wrong. I think i expect way too much from her.
For example if she doesn't say "I love you" after getting off the phone My mind does not stop racing, I constantly feel like something wrong. I want to do everything in my power to not loose her or to ruin this relationship.
Please please please any tips or advice on what I should do to be more carefree and laid back rather than having my mind constantly running?
Thank in advance for any comments.
Posted on 2 April 2009 @ 1:38 (London time) - permalink
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