Is chatting -cheating

im am in a situation.im married and year ago my husband worked out of town and was hanging out with this chick from work and i found out about it and we almost divorced from it,needless to say a year later my husband is talking to this chick online that he met through a forum he post at, why he gave this girl who happens to be single his email addy remains to be seen.he talks to this girls on the regular for 4-6 hrs out of the day and when i approached him about it he instood there were still trust issues and that it was nothing he just likes talking to her about different stuff i have seen some of there chats its nothing sexual but to me its too much sharing for a married man and a single woman. we have fought about this for weeks and he tells me im overreacting its nothing but what married man chats with a female so much and he makes me feel like the bad guy when i say stop its enough, well he has now started to sign out chat but guess what he is emailing stupid stuff but neverthe less emailing its like he cant quit talking to her i f feel that its is becoming and emotional connection and if its not now it can turn into something.just like some outside opinions he has gotten opinions from posting and from friends and family and they tell him its wrong and inappropiate.what do u think i feel as though out marriage is suffering serious damage that will be hard to repair.

Posted on 1 April 2009 @ 0:22 (London time) - permalink
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i know exactly how you feel. my ex husband did the same this with a nurse that worked with me. he told her things he didn't even tell me. she was the last one he talked to at night and the first one he talked to in the morning. well i approached him with this and he said i wasn't his mother. so notice i said ex. i can't live with the thought of sharing personal info with someone who wants him and he refused to stop. i realized he can't quit. so i quit for him.

Posted on 2 April 2009 @ 0:53 (London time) - permalink
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yeah im really leaning towards living myself i dont feel its appropriate.its almost like he cares more about keeping that relationship then keeping his family,the thought of u sharing stuff with another woman freaks me out nvm him digging into her personal life and feelings.

Posted on 2 April 2009 @ 13:20 (London time) - permalink
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