im confused

me and the love of my life have been datein since i was 13 off and on and now im 20. well i know i love him but im not sure if im in love with him. we live together he works 3rd shift and i work 2nd shift. we really dont do that much, but we cant agree on anything, we have nothing in common, we argue all the time, i just aint happy anymore but if i leave him i will feel that a part of me is gone. im so confused because everytime i try to open up to him we end up arguein and we both have a problem with trusting each other. i dont know what i should do, try to work it out or move on???

Posted on 8 May 2006 @ 3:21 (London time) - permalink
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I was kind of in the same situation and I felt the same way that you do but eventually I came to realize that sure all that time that I had invested in the relationship was not worth my sanity. Yes it is a lot of time and a few years of your life gone but....No trust always fighting and generally feeling bad is not worth it. You say your arguing all the time and have nothing in common really, where is the problem? forget the time of your life lost, think of it as the happiness that could be gained by finding someone who appricates you and enjoys you! Sure you want to hold on to the past but the future can be more injoyable if you find someone else to share your life with and be happy with.....

Posted on 8 May 2006 @ 4:32 (London time) - permalink
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well i am in the same thing but my boyfriend keeps stopping out all the time and i dont now wat to do i am so depresed with everything i am so close to leaving him but i love him too much but i dont thnk he loves me what can i do please help

Posted on 20 May 2006 @ 18:19 (London time) - permalink
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