He has someone else.

losttommy, posted over a year ago

I just found out today that my partner of six years has been having a relationship with someone else for 2.5 years.

I am so lost and confused and hurt and depressed that I have a headache from the days events. I talked to the other guy, and he told me everything that has been happening with them over the last 2.5 years.

I don't know what to do. Can someone please help me?

Posted on 8 November 2008 @ 4:39 (London time) - permalink
(Log in to flag spam/offensive/junk messages to moderators)

REPLY TO MESSAGE or Start a new topic

Smilone, posted over a year ago

Your life and your feelings/emotions are more important than anyone who would disrepect you and your relationship with them. It may be hard and it may hurt, but you have to look ahead and realise you are better than to have been treated like that, and someone else would have more respect for you. They are the bad one, and they have lost a faithful partner in you. Usually what goes around come around.

My friend of 1 & 1/2 years recently put pictures of him and his dead wife all around an entire room of his house. I took it as disrespectful to my feeling and our relationship, since he was supposed to be moving on, and, when he could not understand my feelings, I ended the relationship. DON'T PUT UP WITH DISRESPECT - LOVE YOURSELF.

Posted on 9 November 2008 @ 15:32 (London time) - permalink
(Log in to flag spam/offensive/junk messages to moderators)

REPLY TO MESSAGE or Start a new topic

19gaby19, posted over a year ago

Its true idea. I think so i´ll do the same. I think so with next relationship i´ll be much more carefully. But not all guys are like this. i had the same problem with my exfiancei. It was for very hard for me to believe,something like this can happend to me. But afterwards i said to myself i am much more better and nicer better than him. And somehow it was helping me. Say to yourself that you the most nice, beautifull, sexi and inteligent woman and he even cost for one smile, he is too cheap. i know it is painfull but after the time it´ll go.

I hold my fingers accros for good luck.

Posted on 6 March 2009 @ 16:46 (London time) - permalink
(Log in to flag spam/offensive/junk messages to moderators)

REPLY TO MESSAGE or Start a new topic

Add a new message to this topic