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I'm his first girlfriend...

pinkpanther22, posted over a year ago

I've been dating my current boyfriend for 4 years and until two weeks ago we had been engaged for 3 1/2 years.

We got together when we were 18 and I was his first girlfriend and here lies the problem, according to him.

Two weeks ago he told me he really fancied my work colleague, couldn't stop thinking about her and didn't know what to do. I'm had no idea what to say. Since then he's admitted he thinks there are problems with the relationship and primarily it's that he just doesn't know what it's like to be with other women

Since then he's broken up with me and then made up about ten times, sometimes with me begging him to come back and sometimes because he choose to come back himself.

I love him and want to be with him and really want to spend the rest of my life with him. At the moment he says he wants to try and make it work.

Should I just sit back and see what happens or am I being naive? Should I instead be brave and move on even though I love him? Will he ever accept me as his only girlfriend?

Posted on 29 October 2008 @ 15:1 (London time) - permalink
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Mandy7777, posted over a year ago

I would send him down the road!! As tough as it is....if he's doing this now, he will do it in the future....let him go and have all of the women he wants...Trust me, older men say the exact same thing....So, it's a habit that is very hard to break...Be brave and move on!! You deserve alot better than this guy!!

Posted on 7 November 2008 @ 0:57 (London time) - permalink
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