Wife wants a 3 some ?

Bill82, posted over a year ago

Hey all, not really good with words so dont mind me, im 26 and my wife is 24, we have 3 kids together 2,4,5 and have been together for 9 years, but last night she told me that a month or so back she went back to her friends place and made out with her for a few mins ( in front of her bf ) which kinda made me not agree with, well she mentioned to me she would be interested in having a 3 some with another female, ya im like anyother guy and would say yes, i mean i love my wife and kids but dont wanna jeapardise our marriage esp with the kids, i have cheated on my wife in the past befor we got married and regreated it since, and theres times she mentiones it to me till this day and i can deal with it, makes me worry though cause her sex drive isnt the greatest having sex with her is like trying to start a fight and u gotta plan it out ahead, and sex life isnt the greatest cause well she doesnt do much she loves oral and tells me she doesnt care for sex, but hey we all need to be satisfied which i dont mind, i guess my question is really should i actually persue the 3some or do others think theres more to it then just me

Posted on 6 September 2008 @ 17:58 (London time) - permalink
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thair32, posted over a year ago

No, not with the kids, not if you want to get over the past. Trust me. My husband and I were engaged in hot and heavy ideas about doing the same and it completely messes with your head. You aren't going to be able to look at each other in the same way.

I would say that if you guys were mature enough to handle that type of sexual experience you wouldn't risk it. But the fact that you are young and have young kids, you'll regret it. Tell your wife that you love her even when she doesn't ask for it. Be affectionate to her and tell her a compliment she doesn't normally hear from you. Start small, little things, and try to rebuild.

Don't do it. It will be worse after you do it.

Posted on 30 October 2008 @ 21:34 (London time) - permalink
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Mandy7777, posted over a year ago

Take it from someone who has "been there"...DON'T DO IT!! Instead, focus on "other" things that please your wife....Do not bring an "outsider" into your marriage!!! Go to her and TALK to her about what pleases her....that's more important....involving a third party is insane and could destroy your marriage.

Posted on 7 November 2008 @ 0:52 (London time) - permalink
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EscortHusband77, posted over a year ago

I think it's ok if it's with a person you pay for sex, perhaps in a special occasion (new year's eve or job promotion?). And you don't see him/her anymore after that.

Posted on 30 October 2009 @ 3:38 (London time) - permalink
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