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Recently Dumped

s-sheil, posted over a year ago

Hi, a newbie to posting! My boyfriend of two months dumped me last week, thought two months is very short for a relationship we clicked emotionally from the first night we met. I have very very deep feelings for him, would hope there would be a chance that he will have a change of heart and maybe pick up again. It was out of the blue (to me anyway)and said he couldn't give 100% at the moment with all the stuff he has on at the moment - dunno what stuff but how and ever. That night he sent a text asking how I was and since then I have sent two text but the replies were quite short, polite but didn't encourage further chats. I vary from being angry and "never want to see him again" to forgiving and willing to give it another go if he asks.

Though I'm in my late 20's I've never had many relationships and am confused. My head says chalk it down to experience, be friends (as he worked in the same company) and put it behind me but my heart is hopeful that maybe, just maybe there is a chance of a future.

Anyway this is me feeling a little sorry for my self, my heart is in the garage being put back together (I hope) and when I see others posts I know I'm not the worst off but at the same time, still hurts!

Posted on 17 April 2006 @ 20:46 (London time) - permalink
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chachacha, posted over a year ago

I'm sorry you are sad - but remember that being sad when your bf dumps you is NORMAL! You wouldn't be human if you weren't feeling unhappy right now.

Give up on him coming back to you, and work on making yourself more happy, and if you need to talk to someone (other than friends) do go and see a counsellor.

Try to work out what you have learned from the relationship so that your next relationship will be more successful (bearing in mind that you may have done nothing wrong, other than pick the wrong person in the first place - what you may need to learn is how to identify the right person next time).

Good luck

Posted on 18 April 2006 @ 1:13 (London time) - permalink
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