Confused and Depressed

cujo81, posted over a year ago

Hi guys and girls. I don't know where to begin 8 years ago I met this wonderful girl online, We had an instant chemistry but we never took it any further until last year. 7 years after talking we finally hooked up after I went there. I went to Canada for a week which turned into 2 months. Every day we spent together and it was great. I returned home and after a couple of weeks she came here for 2 months again everything was great. She told me she had never felt so comfortable with someone and she loved me, She told me she never thought she'd fall for someone so deep so fast and I have to admit I was feeling the same, the night before she left she spent most of the night crying as she had done the night I left Canada and we made plans for me to return to Canada in a few months and she wrote me a little note telling me not to be sad she loves me and she is always with me.

She returned home and this is when the problems started.... Friday night she told me she didn't want to be in a relationship and she seen no way how it could work. Her ex is back on the seen(her first love) but she says she no longer loves him and nothing has happened between them but she can't say something wont happen between them in the future and she doesn't want deal with that nor keep me hanging on to something that may not work. She remains that she misses me like crazy and still wants to see me but I don't know if I can do this. She wants to be friends and wont discuss the matter any further. It's just all confusing and I can't think straight over it. It hurt when I left her the first time, It hurt watching her walk away the 2nd time and it hurts now.

I hope you can make sense of my ramblings I sure can't :D

Posted on 30 March 2008 @ 20:51 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Hi, well i really feel for you, but i think you are best to let this one walk away.

She says the ex (first love) is back on the scene, how? Are they seeing each other? What scene? Ex's are just that. Never to be gone back to, unless there are still feelings there. You have to be strong and just take each day as it comes and accept that this is over. She says that she cant guarantee that nothing will happen in the future, what a thing to say to someone. she mustnt love you (sorry) for her to come out with something like that, must she. Let her go, move on and meet someone who you so rightly deserve. Keep in touch if you want. Sending you big hugs.

take care

Posted on 31 March 2008 @ 10:11 (London time) - permalink
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