worst week ever

honeybell0, posted over a year ago

well my bad week started last saturday night my partner of 8yrs got drunk pushed over my 15yr old daughter then pinned me against a wall with his fist raised on top of all that my youngest daughter had stolen some alcohol and made herself sick, my partner ended up getting arrested and on sunday got a flight over to Ireland to stay with his parents leaving me to sort everything out and face our neighbours i feel so let down hes flared up in the past when hes drunk but it had been years and he'd never touched the kids i tried so hard to keep our family together we have a six year old son and i didnt want him to have to live without his dad living with him as my daughters had .Our relationship had been going wrong long before we got to this but i still miss him being here im scared of how im going to move on i was ten years younger when i split from my girls dad and had a whole load of friends to help me cope now things are very different i feel very lonely.

On top of all this ive ended up a&e twice this week with the kids nothing bad thank god but the last thing you need is 3 hours up there when your not sleeping good ,Friday topped off my great week the landlords of the house im renting have given me 2 months notice as they want to sell the property so on top of everything else ive now got to look for somewhere else to rent could things get any worse? god i hope not, maybe being busy busy will help me sleep better as yet again its half 2 and im still awake .

Posted on 24 March 2008 @ 2:28 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

i know im young....but i have an old soul. you have probely heard this a million times but.... everything happens for a reason...... This is the right chance to make it pos. and say here is a chance for a clean slate. A new home, new people, and hopefully a new and better life style. Yea it'll be allott'a hard work and time, but you get out of things what you put into it. So things could be doing a 180. and to be honest (i don't mean to be rude or judgemental) but you see mto settle for less. My dad always says never settle. Always work and strive and get what you want in this world. no one should settle for less than what they want. And you should't eather. With some extra effot from you and get uor kids into a new rutine and schedual and adapt to a new and better way of living things are bound to get great.

just remeber....it take A LOT if work and chinging of yourself in the beginning but if you're willing to make the adjustment.....people in your life and people you meet will be willing to help you out. I hope you keep me posted!

~Good Luck!!!!

Posted on 24 March 2008 @ 2:42 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

I am really hurt to hear that you are going through such a tough time even one thing after another. I've been through such things and I am sure, that most people in this world has have a tough life as well.. some even far more worst than others, but who am I to compare??? Every situation is different and with different people...

Life gives you hard lemons and when heck, make lemonade! :]

Life throws you these obstacles to see, how you would handle these things. I believe that these things happening in your life will make you a much better person and a stronger person in the long run.

You may not even believe me as of this moment, but it has happened to me as well as other people that I know. It is just a matter of fact, of how you deal with your obstacles.

Life is what you make of it. It will either break you as a person or make you stronger?

Which one do you want to choose.. is entirelly up to you and what you think is best for you.

You may be afraid to leave your spouse along with other factors as well, but you must get him so help. He needs to better himself as a person, a husband and a father.

You don't want to have this type of man in your life nor your children.

If he throws a fit... leave. I am scared that someday.. he might or may even throw a fist on your children or perhaps, even you if he hasn't already???

People can change. I've seen it happen before ..

*HUGS*

Posted on 24 March 2008 @ 4:8 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Hi mate

I am so sorry to hear of all of this shite that you are going through. I was a battered wife for 20 years and struggles through it with two kids, but i walked out with the kids one day, the rest is a long story.

But it was the hardest decision of my life to walk out the front door, but once i did it i wished i had done it years before.

He has done you a massive favour by walking away, you may not think it now, but you are well rid.

This business about the house is a blow but not surmountable. Where do you live? If in the uk then go straight to the council this week, explain the situation and get them to help you. Go to a solicitor and get an injunction to stop him coming within a mile of you and your family. Then i would go to the police and report the incident, if you havent already. You need that down on record to help you with your case.Also go and get checked out with the doctor, say the whole thing is damaging your health.

Honestly you need to be wise now, not in the future. All this reporting will help you to get a roof over your head. Believe me, i have been there.

Please listen to me, do not let him back into your life, home or bed. He is a dismal piece of shite and need to be eradicated. Also if you have a child together you need to some guidelines about how and when he can see the child, but please get the law on your side.

I am here my lovely if you ever want to get in touch so dont feel alone or lonely.

Sending you big hugs.

Be brave and strong now, you and your kids need you.

Take care and let me know how you are and how things get on.

xxxx

Posted on 24 March 2008 @ 4:49 (London time) - permalink
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